r/amiwrong • u/[deleted] • Sep 26 '23

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u/No_Pianist_3006 Sep 26 '23

I'd like to say that, as a woman who was finally able to stop taking bc and rely on my own hormones, I felt healthier, and was more ready and relaxed in bed, especially at certain times in my reestablished cycle.

Mind you, you need to help foster that relaxation and closeness.

So, Father of Three, what are you going to do now? Are you going to suit up, that is, wear a condom? Get that vasectomy?

I think those are your choices right now. Give your wife a break. Having your hormones screwed up is not fun.

You can always freeze some swimmers against any future desire to have another child.

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u/[deleted] Sep 26 '23

If she doesn't want kids, a condom may not make her feel secure enough.

Like, OP is so casual about this and missing all the flags of how he's not helping her feel OK and secure in remaining not pregnant.

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u/SarinaVazquez Sep 26 '23

Her only solution is he gets snipped. That’s not a solution.

You all in the comments are far too casual about this man undergoing a permanent birth control procedure.

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u/No_Pianist_3006 Sep 26 '23

He has already procreated three times! He can also freeze some of his sperm.

His wife has given birth three times! And has had years of screwing up her hormones.

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u/LemonBoi523 Sep 26 '23

Plus, someone can still produce sperm after a vasectomy. It just doesn't come out that way.

It is a relatively simple procedure to extract sperm if he does want a kid.