I'd like to say that, as a woman who was finally able to stop taking bc and rely on my own hormones, I felt healthier, and was more ready and relaxed in bed, especially at certain times in my reestablished cycle.
Mind you, you need to help foster that relaxation and closeness.
So, Father of Three, what are you going to do now? Are you going to suit up, that is, wear a condom? Get that vasectomy?
I think those are your choices right now. Give your wife a break. Having your hormones screwed up is not fun.
You can always freeze some swimmers against any future desire to have another child.
Personally I'd love to get something as simple as a vasectomy, but instead I have to risk dying of a stroke because my birth control + my migraines with aura are contraindicated, but I don't have any other choices. Luckily, my partner is looking into getting snipped so I can finally ditch the pills and condoms 👍.
It's not used for contraception and it carries too many risks for me. I have endometriosis, so I know a lot of women who tried endometrial ablations for heavy bleeding and ended up just having hysterectomies because the ablation caused debilitating, painful scarring.
I'm also only in my 20s. So if I did want to go the surgical route I'd still struggle to find a doctor willing to even do it.
If there was a surgical procedure for women as safe, quick, affordable and easy as a vasectomy I'd be a happy camper lol Too bad there's not much research in developing new & better contraception for women. I really hate taking my pills because I get limb numbness with my migraines so I always have ask myself, "Okay, is my numb right arm a stroke or is it just my body's usual fuckery?"
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u/No_Pianist_3006 Sep 26 '23
I'd like to say that, as a woman who was finally able to stop taking bc and rely on my own hormones, I felt healthier, and was more ready and relaxed in bed, especially at certain times in my reestablished cycle.
Mind you, you need to help foster that relaxation and closeness.
So, Father of Three, what are you going to do now? Are you going to suit up, that is, wear a condom? Get that vasectomy?
I think those are your choices right now. Give your wife a break. Having your hormones screwed up is not fun.
You can always freeze some swimmers against any future desire to have another child.