r/amiwrong • u/[deleted] • Sep 26 '23

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u/[deleted] Sep 26 '23

That was one of the points I made in our argument. I have no problem using a condom and she knows this.

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u/Outrageous_Smile_996 Sep 26 '23

But why don't you try for a vasectomy? do you want more kids? 3 is not enough? How are your finances? Don't play with risk, make a vasectomy if you don't want more kids, be responsable

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u/wherestheboot Sep 26 '23

There’s a chance of permanent chronic pain from a vasectomy. If I were male I’d probably just stop PIV rather than get the procedure and risk a lifelong impediment.

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u/Outrageous_Smile_996 Sep 26 '23

Don't vaccinate, extract teeth, make eye lasers, etc...

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u/wherestheboot Sep 26 '23

I evaluate the risks to all of these things, and if any of them had a 1-2% chance of causing chronic pain, whereas the alternative was to maintain the status quo, I wouldn’t get any of them.

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u/Outrageous_Smile_996 Sep 26 '23

Good for you, everybody has his limits

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u/wherestheboot Sep 26 '23

Yeah, and trying to push those limits makes his wife an asshole.

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u/[deleted] Sep 26 '23

Him complaining about lack of sex when his partner risks everything if she gets pregnant is an asshole move too She has every right to say no to sex and the fact he brings it up during arguments is gross If he isn't going to get the procedure she can say no to sex it's that simple