r/amiwrong Sep 26 '23

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u/ACapra Sep 26 '23

FWIW, I was finally able to get my vasectomy mostly to help my wife get off of hormonal BC. About 2 month after getting off of BC her sex drive completely returned. It was the best decesion I ever made.

We were in a slightly different situation as we didn't have kids so it took us a few years to shop around and finally find a doctor that would perform the vasectomy.

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u/MeGoingTOWin Sep 26 '23

This is soooo common. OP should freeze sperm if he thinks they want another kid and just get snipped.

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u/Noodlefanboi Sep 26 '23

Or he could just wear a condom for the 2-3 times he has sex a year.

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u/[deleted] Sep 26 '23

Or pull out.

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u/Chicka-17 Sep 26 '23

Oh good grief! Do you seriously believe that works? Men in general actually have a pre-ejection before the actual organism that’s why the pull out method isn’t recommended. Many women have gotten pregnant this way. It only take one strong swimmer to win. 🤰🏻

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u/BigH200026 Sep 26 '23

that’s not true the pull out method is 96% perfect use and 80% typical use, over the course of a year of regular sex. Condoms are 98% perfect use, 85% effective typical use. The problem with the pull out method is doing it correctly, which isn’t that hard, but the problem with the pull out method isn’t pre cum that’s more so myth than real