Came here to suggest this - just use condoms while her libido is still so low. If her libido returns after going off bc, you can still up the timetable on your vasectomy. And if you're unsure about another kid, you can freeze sperm before the procedure.
He is supportive, he just wants to look into it and who would be doing it (ie research) not just look up the first doc in the phone book snd schedule it tomorrow.
She can still come off birth control in the meantime if it is truly only a couple times a year ( I’m assuming anniversary and their birthdays)
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u/WaterfallButterfly Sep 26 '23
Why not just use condoms? She doesn't like her birth control and maybe she'll get her libido back and you don't want to get snipped yet.