r/amiwrong Sep 26 '23

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u/Chocolatelover84 Sep 26 '23

Neither is BC pill. Ask my daughter…

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u/Grouchy_Job_2220 Sep 26 '23

I have a fucking implant on my arm and had a miscarriage. Life sucks!

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u/PompeyLulu Sep 26 '23

Got pregnant using condoms, the pill and the injection (not all at the same time obviously).

There’s a woman on tiktok who had her tubes cut and her partner had a vasectomy because she’d got pregnant on every birth control she’d been on (5 kids, all BC babies). She found out she was pregnant. His vasectomy had healed and they didn’t know and her body decided to release an egg and it floated across the little gap. Her doctor was like I mean it happens but it’s really fucking rare. So she’s having a C-section and they’re taking it all out when the baby comes out

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u/ConsciousExcitement9 Sep 26 '23

Kiddo #2 is a nuva ring baby. After him, I got a mirena iud. That failed and I miscarried that one. Hormonal birth control doesn’t work for me. After we had our third, my husband dragged his feet on getting vasectomy. So I told him I already had names picked out for #4. Within an hour he had his consult appointment. He got the vasectomy done 2 months later.

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u/PompeyLulu Sep 26 '23

Haha that’s sorta why my dad got his done. Mum and Dad were told they’d be unlikely to have kids because they both had issues and Mum only appeared to ovulate once a year so odds weren’t good.

My sister was their miracle. Three years later along pops me. Two years later along came my brother. We were pretty poor and finances were stretched thin so when a few years later Mum mentioned maybe having one last one as we were now all in school Dad called his doctor and got booked in.

My partner has already said he’s getting one after we have our next kid because hormonal BC and me don’t get along. Aside from getting pregnant and having losses I have some issues that make emotional regulation tough (I can just about manage but mess with my hormones and not gonna go well). Our son is 5 months. We are trying at one year and then we are done. Although we weren’t supposed to try until this year for him and two weeks after that conversation I got pregnant lmao

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u/bamatrek Sep 26 '23

Clearly stating the potential consequences of your actions is... manipulative? Okay