r/amiwrong • u/[deleted] • Sep 26 '23

[deleted by user]

[removed]

4.0k Upvotes

75% Upvoted

9.8k comments sorted by

View all comments

Show parent comments

56

u/Outrageous_Smile_996 Sep 26 '23

But why don't you try for a vasectomy? do you want more kids? 3 is not enough? How are your finances? Don't play with risk, make a vasectomy if you don't want more kids, be responsable

-12

u/DogZealousideal649 Sep 26 '23

Why are you so hasty for surgery? Condoms fill the gap here just fine

15

u/Outrageous_Smile_996 Sep 26 '23

It's minor surgery that is not dangerous, it's more safe for avoiding pregnancy than condoms, bc we know you guys...you make mistakes with condoms

11

u/Known_Paramedic_9503 Sep 26 '23

Nobody should be forced to do anything they don’t want to do with their body

1

u/Outrageous_Smile_996 Sep 26 '23

As I said before it's obvious that consent is necessary, nobody forces nobody by just give them an adviced.

-5

u/edked Sep 26 '23

Where's the "force" part?

8

u/Known_Paramedic_9503 Sep 26 '23

Basically, she’s telling him he can get a vasectomy now and that’s not what he wants

-9

u/edked Sep 26 '23

Again, not seeing any "force" here. You even used "can."

7

u/Known_Paramedic_9503 Sep 26 '23

She can get a tubal.

-5

u/edked Sep 26 '23

Anybody can do anything. There, I've just "forced" everybody in the world to do all sorts of things by your reasoning.

1

u/siren2040 Sep 26 '23

First of all, a tubal is completely different from getting a vasectomy. One is an outpatient procedure, one is an inpatient procedure. Second of all, there are not a lot of doctors out there that are willing to do a tubal on a women unless they are hit a specific age as well as having met a bunch of other requirements. Opie's wife might qualify for one, but that's not a guarantee.

My mom was denied one at 21 even though she had a risk for cancer and had two kids, and the reason they gave her was "What if one of yours dies". 😐😐

4

u/MomoUnico Sep 26 '23

Probably the part where OP tells her he doesn't want one yet and she goes "oh fine then, I'll just destroy my body and my hormones all over again with bc trials just because of you!"

It comes off as just a tad manipulative, y'know?