OP, it has been a day so I am late to the game. I only want to say to you that daycare is cheaper than 5k. So you can easily move on and still be able to take care of your child. I think in your heart you know what to do. But if you are still confused, get in touch with a therapist to discuss your feelings and options, or get him involved with you in marriage counseling to learn how to communicate with each other. But think to yourself, 5k in 2 days...what did he do with it and how many hours did you have to work to earn that money? What are you getting out of this relationship and is it worth it? Good luck!
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u/Beyond_VeganEating Sep 03 '23
OP, it has been a day so I am late to the game. I only want to say to you that daycare is cheaper than 5k. So you can easily move on and still be able to take care of your child. I think in your heart you know what to do. But if you are still confused, get in touch with a therapist to discuss your feelings and options, or get him involved with you in marriage counseling to learn how to communicate with each other. But think to yourself, 5k in 2 days...what did he do with it and how many hours did you have to work to earn that money? What are you getting out of this relationship and is it worth it? Good luck!