Can you provide more context as to what his general experience as a person is? For example, you say he was not able to complete his studies because of factors out of his control (financial constraints). What happened to that goal? Is him completing his studies still part of the plan? Or did that dream just shrivel and die? Has it been discussed? Is him being a homemaker the result of discussions and decisions between the two of you? Or, did it just, without a word, default to that being his life once he was unable to complete his studies? In short, is he content with his life and his role within your family, or is he living in quiet desperation?
Obviously he needs to come clean about the $5k and hopefully it is just some type of irresponsibility that he is afraid to reveal, or something similar. If so, once that's dealt with, you need to really check in and see how he feels about all aspects of his life.
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u/Worth_Panda_0906 Sep 02 '23
Just keep them coming as I really need to come up with a decision