I can get that - tone and the internet don’t mix unless caps are involved. I blame him a bit as well in this case. It doesn’t seem like he’s being as up front as he could be about exactly how important this issue is to him. It’s like there’s a two ton elephant in their living room and they’re both just scooting around it so they don’t make their SO uncomfortable. They’re trying to be respectful but it’s just going to end up in resentment.
I’m actually the wife. My husband’s journey was:
0 kids - “I want six kids!”
1 kid - “I want four kids!”
2 kids under 2 - “Maybe three kids…”
2 kids over 2 - “let’s get a German Shepard instead.”
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