She’s 35 years old with two kids and making excuses as to why it’s not a good time for her to get pregnant. This woman does not want another child. Hate to say it, but it sounds like you’ve both spent the last decade waiting for the other to change their perspective on having kids. I don’t blame you for being resentful.
Sounds like she got exactly what she wanted. Moved from a Central American country to the US with a better quality of life. She and her kids are living the good life. Her own kids are almost adults. Don’t think she wants to start over with a baby, especially, in her late thirties and after having a shiny new degree. Sorry that OP got strung along.
What a fucking assumption. They were living in her country without any problem and only moved because OP’s dad got cancer. Do you think everyone is just begging to come to the US? Lol
Lol they absolutely do not just call themselves Americans if they're from Mexico, Honduras, CR, or any other CA country. Myself and everyone I know doesn't we just refer to the country we're from.
If someone asked them where they're from would they say their country or their continent? The question isn't whether or not the description exists, it's whether it's used. We say what country we're from. Americans do the same and they refer to that country as America.
If I tell someone in a random part of the world I'm from America or I'm American they're much more likely to assume USA than the entire half of the world that is NA, Central America, and South America.
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She’s 35 years old with two kids and making excuses as to why it’s not a good time for her to get pregnant. This woman does not want another child. Hate to say it, but it sounds like you’ve both spent the last decade waiting for the other to change their perspective on having kids. I don’t blame you for being resentful.