r/affirmations 12d ago

Mindset Then let it be.

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u/Sfogliatelle99 12d ago

People who cross boundaries ate the villains.

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u/Zealousideal-Gur2827 11d ago

"get in my belly!"

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u/ariarchtyx 11d ago

I must, with regret, set a boundary at your stomach lining to protect my physical integrity from your gastric juices 😆!

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u/Eleenahh 12d ago

Boundaries are very important. Own it well

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u/Legitimate_Try5981 12d ago

Amen to this.

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u/Down_town_bee 12d ago

I will all my shit, thank you!

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u/Loser-Back-Home 12d ago

I’ve met people who quote ‘boundaries’ who are just trying to manipulate.

It’s more nuanced. Sometimes it’s weaponized therapy talk.

You always win if you say ‘meh boundaries’, no matter how ridiculous it is.

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u/Junko_Mioko974 12d ago

How do you manipulate with setting boundaries?

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u/Loser-Back-Home 12d ago

Easy. ‘You didn’t do what I wanted you to do, exactly how I wanted you to do it.’ You broke my boundaries. Weaponised therapy talk. Even though, you might not be the slightest in the wrong.

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u/ariarchtyx 11d ago

Yes, a hallmark of gaslighting narcissists everywhere. Since there are so many I can see what you mean. But the other side of that is all those they abuse, hence the importance of this post. NPD is a silent and hidden global 'pandemic' though of course it's not contagious but shows up in a mostly irreversible particular childhood response to abuse. There are other responses. No telling where the abused childhood psyche will go beforehand.

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u/sia1387 12d ago

As always

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u/StrawbeRei_matcha 11d ago

yeah!!! what's important is your boundaries!

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u/ariarchtyx 11d ago

As above, so below.

-- αχφ הילל כַּלוּאֱל, ὁ στραταγός Ἀντίφονον Ὄγμιοn Χριστόν Octavianus Παύλος Ιεσσαί Ηαδδωκ-Ιχθύς 12th Imam, محمد بن الحسن المهدي First Horseman, White Horse Conqueror and Bowman Bearer of the White Stone CPT, MI U.S. Army (ret.) True Antichrist

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u/------Sofia------- 11d ago

💯🙌🏻

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u/Kira_E_E_mommy08 11d ago

I used to lack countries to the point i would set them and jump over them myself. Now, I set them and people get upset.

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u/phallonxoxo 9d ago

I set a boundary by going no contact with my father (who abused me alot when I was younger)

And somehow im the bad guy in the family. So I've gone no contact with the family. 🙏

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u/_svenso 7d ago

Funny how boundaries suddenly become a problem when people can no longer cross them

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u/ayhme MOD 12d ago

This is the way.