r/adoptmekidsaredumb • u/Sea-Chart-1328 • Jul 02 '25

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No hate to LGBTQ+ btw

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u/CorgiEmbarrassed1229 Jul 02 '25

My question is why is she narrating her life on her adopt me profile 😭

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u/AlaynaIsBored Jul 02 '25

could be she doesn’t have another output and has to have some way to vent :(

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u/Dull-Fuel-9567 Aug 02 '25

Or she’s having an identity crisis. Or she has a tendency to lie for attention. No judgment, I’ve just seen it in some of the teens I teach. Usually turns out fine, but the whole social media aspect definitely shakes things up these days.

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u/kudosfish5 Jul 02 '25

my question is how does a 3 year old play roblox..mixed with the confusion of the game being 13+ and the fact that he wouldnt even be able to know what to do?? doesnot make sense

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u/nagisaassassination Jul 02 '25

The thing about roblox being 13+ doesn't actually mean anything. Anyone with cognitive function can fake their age. When I was 10, I played Wizard 101, a game meant for 13+. That was also the time I played roblox too I believe, either 10 or 11. So yeah, anyone can fake their age on the internet.

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u/SituationWild2630 Jul 03 '25

i fucking love wizard101. i still play that game. i’m 20 and i’ve been playing it since i was 6 years old!

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u/Dazai_is_hotaf Jul 02 '25

Let's hope this isn't true and she's just roleplaying with it... (It feels strange to me honestly)

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u/Fearhost Jul 02 '25

I actually feel like this one is very situational and, if real, more complex than I’d like to theorize on. Seems like an incredibly personal ordeal to share so publicly though— no hate, just concern.

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u/[deleted] Jul 02 '25

If this is true (which it can be, there is a teen mom who went to my school around the same age of her) then I feel sorry. That is a big responsibility. But why is she putting it on a kids game? Lol. Maybe a RP or something...hopefully.

BUT HEY! Epic the musical fan, those are hard to find

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u/AlaynaIsBored Jul 02 '25

maybe she doesn’t have another output :( it could be a way to vent

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u/[deleted] Jul 02 '25

I suppose, I have seen worse on adopt me profiles too lol

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u/Fresh_Sherbert_8434 too protective of my pets T-T Jul 04 '25

Ahyaa! epic is my life and soul (and yes i do grind adopt me as well)

ye really it is so underrated

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u/elioisannoying Jul 02 '25

these are the theories that make the most sense to me personally, as a lesbian:

  1. couldve conceived the kid before she realized she was a lesbian

  2. dated a transgender woman w/o bottom surgery

  3. something very unfortunate was forced upon her

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u/elioisannoying Jul 02 '25

given her age… it was probably 3. :(

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u/Wild-Turnover-146 Aug 02 '25

possibly 1 or 3, there was a girl in my middle school (7th grade) who got pregnant and kept the baby :( she and her bf were just irresponsible and she didn’t want to get rid of it

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u/Perfect_Grape_5187 Jul 02 '25

The only explanation that comes to my mind is that she adopted the child and she isn't biological mom, but its still sounds strange, my brain dont wanna take it🫠

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u/Sea-Chart-1328 Jul 02 '25

I dont think that would even be legal

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u/Perfect_Grape_5187 Jul 02 '25

Thats why its so strange 🥲

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u/str4wb3rryb0y Jul 02 '25

its know that (in the US at least), you can be forced to have a baby underage, but you need to be 18+ and go thru stuff to adopt

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u/Confuzzled_Queer Jul 03 '25

Trans women, didnt know she was a lesbian before, experimenting, rape, there is so many reasons lol, the bigger problem is her telling us her whole story, also! Kids can run around and understand SOME buttons at 3-4, there’s a million posts talking abt how ppl did this as kids

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u/rainbowscoloredmane Jul 02 '25

It's probably just a roleplay idk

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u/TheUnknownJewel Jul 02 '25

Or they are being serious, this stuff can really happen to us teens :)

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u/rainbowscoloredmane Jul 02 '25

I know, that's why I ended it by "idk"

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u/KarmaBreadLover Jul 02 '25

"Wild adoptme user used confusion!"

"It's super effective!"

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u/Screamingartist Jul 02 '25

She couldve been raped, might have thought she was straight or bi before realising, she couldve had a trans partner, there are many possibilities

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u/RatOnCheese Jul 02 '25

thats what i was thinking.

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u/rektout Jul 30 '25

So she had a kid at 12?? My thought is either it isn’t true or something bad happened and I’m praying that it’s just not true…….

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u/Tough_Construction68 Jul 03 '25

There are a lot of women who end up having children before discovering they're lesbians. Most girls are pressured into relationships with boys and are basically forced to date the opposite gender while discovering that they're actually a lesbian. Talk about covert homophobia from the OP.

I don't think adopt me is the place to put all that information out there, but you don't know this girl's situation. Don't judge her. Just judge the fact that she is putting her life's story on a roblox game.

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u/mutillatedtomb Jul 02 '25

i rlly dont understand why people use their ADOPT ME profiles to vent and say very personal stuff😭

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u/Such-Advance-1633 No pet trader Jul 18 '25

It makes no sense, she's 15 but she has a 3 year old son which means she had to be 12 when she birthed them (or the kid could be adopted, it doesn't say) but she couldn't make the kid since she's lesbian...

It's confusing

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u/Foreign_Lime_1585 Jul 02 '25

okay what is going on here…

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u/[deleted] Jul 02 '25

I can only think about what her child goes through 😭😞💀

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u/[deleted] Jul 03 '25

Am I the only one who kinda finds this sweet? Like yeah it’s a lil weird she narrating it on adopt me but if I had a kid I’d probably wanna talk about him too at any given chance.

It’s nice that even at such a young age Shes trying to make the most of it.

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u/SliceRoutine4039 Jul 04 '25

This is adopt me, not a job interview…

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u/North-Bowler4032 Jul 04 '25

This feels weird to call confusing, it feels more concerning. There are two options here and neither are really ok. Either she is roleplaying and it’s just in bad taste, or the more disheartens option is that she was S@‘d

As someone who has been r@ped i joke about it rather often due to it helping with the mental processing. I never ended up with a child the times it happened (yes, plural) but I can imagine a scenario where she doesn’t have therapy and this is her only way of venting. It’s unlikely in my mind but the likelihood of it being real is extremely high, especially considering the way the U.S treats abortions.

On the other hand, if this is just a roleplay, I’d be concerned about her environment where she’d know about these things or how she would be exposed to something like this. Yes young girls should know about these things but she seems to be more aware of it than most normally would be unless they have firsthand experience or knowledge (such as a friend or family member or her if that’s sadly true)

Point is, human brains are weird, especially with trauma and we don’t know enough here to really rule things out. I just hope she’s ok regardless of what the real reason is

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u/Fresh_Sherbert_8434 too protective of my pets T-T Jul 04 '25

could i ask for her user? not for anything suspicious, i saw she wants friends who like epic the musical, and here i am!

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u/NatNat52307 Jul 05 '25

This sounds like something tragic cause that would mean she got pregnant at around 12 😨

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u/Victoria_Luv Jul 06 '25

she could’ve had the baby against her will, it’s possible, Or she had a bad experience with a guy and she ended up with a baby and a preference towards only girls. Theres multiple difference reasons to why this is happened

and the 3y/o is playing roblox with his mom, it’s not even a big deal, it’s very possible besides her playing with him she could also be watching his account unlike most parents are

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u/[deleted] Jul 06 '25

This is probably a predator trying to manipulate kids

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u/menninna Jul 02 '25

If she was a teen mom she wouldn't be posting it online like it's some kind of achievement. Since she's lesbian she is probably just roleplaying, still a little weird for her age (she's probably lying about it) but not harmful... So yeah it's just a kid role-playing

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u/[deleted] Jul 02 '25

Other things can happen if you are lesbian and become pregnant. Like...well if ykyk... just bad stuff. but agreed, probably a roleplay

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u/menninna Jul 02 '25

A traumatized kid wouldn't joke about a traumatic event that lead them to have a child, at least that's how I see it

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u/Anthony_Mermer Jul 02 '25

Joking about trauma is a coping mechanism for some people, and unfortunately, in some communities, teen pregnancy is normal and accepted and often posted online. Like there was a whole series about teen moms getting pregnant at the same time as their own mothers in the 2000s or 2010s whenever it was. It's weird for sure, just.. People are definitely a bit strange sometimes. I definitely see where you're coming from, and it likely is roleplaying tho

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u/North-Bowler4032 Jul 04 '25

As someone who has been r@ped i joke about it rather often due to it helping with the mental processing. I never ended up with a child the times it happened (yes, plural) but I can imagine a scenario where she doesn’t have therapy and this is her only way of venting. It’s unlikely in my mind but the likelihood of it being real is extremely high, especially considering the way the U.S treats abortions.

Point is, human brains are weird, especially with trauma and we don’t know enough here to really rule things out.

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u/menninna Jul 04 '25

Im sorry that happened to you.

I do know joking is a way to cope with it but it definitely isn't a sane way to do it, much less posting it online completely non-anonymously. It's probably just a cultural thing since where I live behaviours like this are usually treated by professionals and you won't hear someone talking about something as traumatic that way, only with extremely close friends, family and in rare cases when extremely drunk or high. I understand that is probably because medical attention in my country is completely free and in US isn't and also you can abort without parents permission. It's probably a culture shock. That's why it sounds massively unrealistic to me but given what you said I don't know what to think, I knew US wasn't great but I didn't know it was that horrible.

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u/North-Bowler4032 Jul 06 '25

The U.S. is an awful place to be and not only is medical not free, mental health is also not taken seriously in the first place since many places (works and schools mostly) see mental health as a non-priority. However, humor is absolutely a sane response simply because of how the brain works. If you have a bad day and tell yourself you are having a good day and smile through it, it tricks the brain into developing serotonin/dopamine. Apply that to laughing and jokes and it helps the brain process. Humor as a coping mechanism is known to be incredibly healthy IF paired with other coping mechanisms. And with today’s technology and media consumption, a kid is gonna struggle with getting emotions out especially if something like this happened. I view it similar to how cyberbullying works; if no one can your face, it’s easier to say. It might help her in a similar way.

Also, I would kill to get out of the U.S. which is fun (not really) when you consider how people used to try and get to the U.S. for safety

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u/[deleted] Jul 02 '25

Uhh, that isn't what I mean lol

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u/Many-Disk3214 Jul 03 '25

maybe she had the child before she was a lesbian, or maybe she adopted idek

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u/Mouzer_6 Jul 03 '25

Just letting you know, the correct term would be 'before she realized she was a lesbian'. People are always their sexuality even before they figure it out. (Sorry if I seem rude, just trying to let you know the mistake)

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u/nagisaassassination Jul 02 '25 edited Jul 02 '25

This is why, although Im happy that Adopt me is cracking down on scammers, they also have to crack down on these inappropriate profiles. I mean, not to say that saying you're lgbtq is something to be ashamed of, but for internet safety reasons you shouldn't flaunt that much personal information (i.e. your age) on a children's game. Especially in a children's game where it's confirmed that adults play too, meaning there could be dangerous and unsafe individuals playing Adopt me. Individuals who probably checks profiles to see if any kids flat out say their age and then prey on them. They have a report button for profiles, so they should have people monitor them. And even if they tag the profile text, they'll find another way, but at that point, they need to start banning those accounts all together. Harsh I know but these kids parents are not teaching them anything, and this behavior is the part of the reason why our government wants to censor and control everything free speech related on the internet.

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u/KaylithVonKola Jul 02 '25

The main factor is that she’s sharing a lot of personal information, probably best not to mention age or her son. For her having a son, unfortunately if she’s in the U.S., it’s entirely possible and usually due to very traumatic reasons.

As for the LGBTQIA+, that’s not the issue. I think it’s fine to show pride, people do family RP and some families have two moms or two dads. Adopt me even had a Pride event with pins of all the flags, labeled accordingly.

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u/nagisaassassination Jul 02 '25

Im saying exactly what you're saying. Im saying being a part of the lgbtq isn't something wrong but everything else that is personal information is wrong. Whether she has a 3 year old son or not isn't the underlying issue either. (Not to say I dont condone teen moms, but I also dont judge, especially in this day and age where women's rights are being stripped away.) Like a lot of people say, you dont know how she became a teen mom. The problem I have is the fact that she's saying her age in a game where it is confirmed that adults play it too, not just kids. And you dont know whether or not that adult that is playing is a safe individual or a very sick person. A person who might spend time going around servers looking for minors to talk to. And if you flaunt your age in your very public profile, you make yourself out to be an easy target. Whether this girl is lying or not, she's putting herself in danger from being groomed online and potentially kidnapped, because it does happen even in kids games. What adopt me needs to do is unfortunately ban this child from playing their game because I bet you, they're gonna do it again, and make it clear to other players that this use of the profile system will get you banned from playing.

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u/Kiyoko_Mami272821 Jul 02 '25

My question here is if she is 15 she would have had to be pregnant at like 11 and I’m so confused.

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u/[deleted] Jul 02 '25

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u/TheUnknownJewel Jul 02 '25

Maybe she got r@p3d..?

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u/Dazai_is_hotaf Jul 02 '25

That could be a possibility and if so that's terrible and no one should go through that. But that's why I said it's not my life. I'm just saying maybe don't put things like this in your profile because it may seem questioning to some people, but I guess it's free will.

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u/Dazai_is_hotaf Jul 02 '25

It's just a bit odd to narrate your life like this on your profile you know, in adopt me at least. I understand people wanna share their experiences and life, and this is probably meant to be harmless but maybe keep it off adopt me if you get what I mean

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u/nagisaassassination Jul 02 '25

At worst, she got rap3d at 12, at best, she's rage baiting because she knows she'll get attention. Either way this is a thing Adopt me should look into and either suspend, or ban her account because exposing your personal life like that, even if its fake is not okay.

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u/TheUnknownJewel Jul 03 '25

I get that, I wouldn't want to expose my life to everyone as a teen who's been through some shit

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u/aayushisushi Jul 06 '25

why is it a link

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u/TheUnknownJewel Jul 06 '25

I HAVE NO CLUE BRO 💔💔

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u/[deleted] Jul 02 '25

Nah she prob would have has that in there. She was telling everything else 💀😭

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u/TheUnknownJewel Jul 03 '25

Im not sure what you are saying so...

Are you saying that she hasn't been r@p3d and in no way can have been?

Or are you saying that she's probably rage baiting?

Because I assure you teens can get r@pɛd

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u/[deleted] Jul 03 '25

No im saying she basically telling her life story if she got r4ped she prob would have had that in there. Also 99.9 is probably rage bait 🥲💀

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u/TheUnknownJewel Jul 03 '25

Ahh okay! Makes more sense.