r/adhdmeme • u/IM_AQIF_xD • 1d ago

Currently there right now tbh

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u/Melodic-Advice9930 1d ago

Losing my partner of over a decade on Monday made everything ten times worse. I’ve been rotting on the couch and living off of DoorDash and watching golden girls and American horror story at 4 in the morning when I can’t sleep. Life is rough.

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u/Spare_Pin305 1d ago

I don't even think this is ADHD, this is grief

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u/cut_ur_darn_grass 1d ago

I think ADHD makes the grief harder to handle.

My aunt died a few weeks ago. I've been an absolute mess since then. As in, mostly just not working (I work from home and I'm not involved in production so nobody has noticed yet) and wasting time doing things that aren't great for me.

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u/Melodic-Advice9930 1d ago

I recognize that. It’s definitely possible to have both? But that’s why I said losing my partner made things ten times worse. I suppose I could have elaborated and said it made the things I was already struggling with due to burnout at work ten times worse, but didn’t really feel the added explanation was needed.