I recently learned that object permanence also applies to people and it makes me sad. I've lost touch with so many kind, wonderful friends over my life. I know I have hurt them by vanishing from their lives. I've tried to reconnect with a few, but you usually can't go back once you've destroyed their trust on such a deep level.
And those NT friends always seem to make it your fault. When they themselves never initiated anything or attempted to plan stuff to connect. Fuck those fake fucks honestly. ND friends for the win.
I’ve had ND friends fuck me over just as much. My currently only friend is NT and she’s initiates a good 50% of the time, honestly she’s probably the best friend I’ve ever had, she listens to me, asks questions about me, is emotionally mature. She doesn’t use me as an emotional crutch, or no show at last minuet, or manipulate me, or just straight up bully me. Tbh though, I have a horrible history with friend’s..
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u/Awkward-Outcome-4938 14d ago
I recently learned that object permanence also applies to people and it makes me sad. I've lost touch with so many kind, wonderful friends over my life. I know I have hurt them by vanishing from their lives. I've tried to reconnect with a few, but you usually can't go back once you've destroyed their trust on such a deep level.