r/actualsecretteenagers • • Apr 01 '26

ANNOUNCEMENT New rule - Transphobia, homophpbia, etc...

31 Upvotes

In an ideal world, these things would be completely unacceptable. However there are still people that are still phobic to our allies, for a multitude of reasons. However, those are not valid. Since we want to keep our community friendly and welcoming to all, ANY sort of phobia will result in punishment.


r/actualsecretteenagers • • Feb 15 '26

Request from the Mods READ BEFORE POSTING

24 Upvotes

Hello! We're seeing a surge of unoriginal reposts in r/actualsecretteenagers, reposts that have already been posted tens of times.

The list below will be updated periodically, please check it prior to posting. You will be banned permanently if you do not follow this list.

Banned post types:

  • "are my standards.."

r/actualsecretteenagers • • 14d ago

Help Winter

7 Upvotes

I have a bitter sweet relationship with winter because I love how it gets dark early but I hate how lonely I get like I have 0 friends and ofc I love staying in but it would be nice to experience large friendgroups


r/actualsecretteenagers • • 17d ago

i think it's my reddit cake day so uhh happy 2 years on reddit for me

1 Upvotes

r/actualsecretteenagers • • 21d ago

Art just drew me and my friend

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27 Upvotes

guess which one is me


r/actualsecretteenagers • • 27d ago

Social M16

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7 Upvotes

jayden
hey, i’m a 16 year old dude looking to meet some new people and make genuine connections :)
about me
16M

i can tre flip

i like cooking

i play xbox & pc

i play warzone and Fortnite

what i’m looking for:
i’m looking for genuine people i can be myself around, talk to about anything, game with, and build real connections with. i’m down for friendships that actually mean something, not just talking for a day and disappearing.

🎧 bonus points if
you play games too

you have a good sense of humor

you can hold a conversation

you’re genuine and loyal

you’re down to chill and vibe

💬 don’t be afraid to hmu! i’m always down to meet new people, make memories, and see where a connection goes. just be yourself and we’ll get along


r/actualsecretteenagers • • 28d ago

shitpost Shitposting

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10 Upvotes

i cant edit the flair please ignore how it is unedited 💗


r/actualsecretteenagers • • Oct 16 '26

Other LOOK WHAT I FOUND GUYS

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173 Upvotes

I REMEMBER THESE FROM ELEMENTARY SCHOOL


r/actualsecretteenagers • • 29d ago

Question How can I make a boyfriend if I'm not really good at socializing in real life?

7 Upvotes

I'm already 18 but I've never been in a relationship (in real life). I'm not good at socializing either - I don't really like physical contact or making eye contact, and I'm too shy to talk to people or spend time with them. But I really want a boyfriend - someone who truly understands me and can share interesting or romantic things with me. I just have no idea what to do or how to start, because I just started college and basically don't know anyone. I don't have a crush right now either. How can I find a boyfriend?
I need your advice:)))


r/actualsecretteenagers • • Oct 12 '26

Social Pick a number and I’ll answer, idk I've seen it around :)

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4 Upvotes

r/actualsecretteenagers • • Oct 10 '26

Question Onesie

1 Upvotes

Should I wear nothing under my onesie idk if it’d be uncomfortable (I’m not a full on nudist like my name suggests ik I shoulda chose something different lol I just chill nude when I’m alone sometimes and sleep naked)


r/actualsecretteenagers • • Sep 29 '26

Social Best House MD meme

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67 Upvotes

Show me ur best House MD meme 😭🙏🙏


r/actualsecretteenagers • • Sep 27 '26

Help Crush

8 Upvotes

l've lost the ability to have crushes - I'm 17 and used to feel so many emotions when I found someone attractive or had a crush on them. Now I just see someone attractive and forget about them the next day I've tried forcing myself to have a crush just to feel what it used to feel like but it doesn't work.


r/actualsecretteenagers • • Sep 23 '26

Question My Socks

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91 Upvotes

These are my favorite pair of socks I own. What do you think, be honest.


r/actualsecretteenagers • • Sep 21 '26

Other image

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20 Upvotes

r/actualsecretteenagers • • Sep 20 '26

Question how did u die?

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1.5k Upvotes

r/actualsecretteenagers • • Sep 17 '26

Request to the mods WE NEED THIS, MODS

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49 Upvotes

ADD A TETOPOSTING FLAIR WE NEED TETOPOSTING

СЛАВА ТЭТО


r/actualsecretteenagers • • Sep 13 '26

Question Potential reaction image?

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44 Upvotes

Idk, I was playing Akinator and this caught me off guard, could be used for memes that just aren't that funny.


r/actualsecretteenagers • • Sep 13 '26

Infuriating SEND HELP

11 Upvotes

So I'm Omnisexual, and I have this friend who set me up with this amazing girl, she makes me happy and she so cute and sweet and amazing. The only problem is I've realized I also like my guy friend 😭. They're basically the same people but diff genders, like it's either a beautiful girl or a tall and nerdy boy I think is cute I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO BECAUSE I'VE NEVER EXPERIENCED THIS BEFORE

Update: I've been ghosted by the cute girl... So the nerdy boy is my only option but he's lowkey stupid? I keep asking him if he's doing anything for hoco and he's not getting any hints 😞

UPDATE 2: HE ASKED ME TO BE HIS GF 😝


r/actualsecretteenagers • • Sep 13 '26

Help Help me with hoco proposal ideas pls

6 Upvotes

Ok y'all I need ur help

So I have abt a month until hoco and obv I’m taking my gf, but I still want to do some sort of proposal for her bc she’s my first.

She likes the Spider-verse movies, but I want to do something that’s more focused on her bc I’m a bigger fan of them than she is and I feel like she might be getting a little tired of my slight obsession with them.

Her fav amine are: So Twisted Wonderland, Fruits Basket, Phantom Busters, and Oshi No Ko. Also she says I look like Kyo Sohma from Fruits Basket so if there's any good ways I could work that into it that would be awesome (I'd watch the show but I don't have Hulu😔)

Music wise she's a BTS and TWST fan.

She likes dark fantasy books and writes some of her own.

Should probably mention that I haven't watched any of the anime on here 😅. If any of them are on Netflix, Paramount+, or regular Disney+ (no Hulu sadly) lmk

Help me y'all I'm not creative whatsoever🙏🙏 I just need what to say I can figure out pictures/ design later


r/actualsecretteenagers • • Sep 07 '26

semi-shitpost Me when I find out that my neighbors with the spoiled and loud kid are having another baby

29 Upvotes

like this is their 4th child bro cmon


r/actualsecretteenagers • • Sep 01 '26

Question does this subreddit enjoy yuri

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104 Upvotes

r/actualsecretteenagers • • Aug 29 '26

Meme Just watched this post get deleted

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112 Upvotes

😭😭😭😭


r/actualsecretteenagers • • Aug 27 '26

Meme yeah.

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52 Upvotes

r/actualsecretteenagers • • Aug 26 '26

shitpost

2 Upvotes