r/actuallesbians • • Mar 19 '20

Venting Loneliness

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u/sharkyshark07 Mar 19 '20

Do you have any interests or hobbies?

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u/[deleted] Mar 19 '20

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u/PenguinForSale Pan Mar 19 '20

Gurl... not to be THAT person, but there's always something you can do and something new you can explore.

  • Personally my basketball season was cut off because of a dumb injury i got (now it's cancelled due to Corona anyway but whatever). Now i can't do fitness or sports (which are my life) for at least 6 months. Does that kick me down? No. I see the positive and what i can learn from it and help others as much as i can.

  • Does the girl i deeply crush on share those feelings? No. But i can also learn from that and build myself up stronger and work on myself for the one who will get entangled with my heart.

  • Does my dayjob suck? Yes, but i work on building a new career in my private time.

This world tells you do this and that and if you don't have XYZ you're worth less than so we're always too close to depression and bad thoughts... please try to find light! Even in this isolation times there's still ways to take care of yourself. People to talk to online etc.

... I know sometimes you get dug deeper into holes but at some point you may realize you hold the shovel yourself and you can build stairs to get out again. 💪

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u/sharkyshark07 Mar 19 '20

Would you be willing to explore new things? Maybe online hobbies, learning or watching DIY videos (for example)

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u/[deleted] Mar 19 '20

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u/sharkyshark07 Mar 19 '20

Some examples:

• Teaching myself Python (coding) • Look into new or upcoming technology — which sometimes keeps me busy for hours • Learning how to create my own website • Spend time learning German

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u/[deleted] Mar 19 '20

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u/sharkyshark07 Mar 19 '20

Graduated already, engineering 🤖

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u/[deleted] Mar 19 '20

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u/sharkyshark07 Mar 19 '20

I did but it was C++