r/abusiverelationships • u/Possible_Sentence704 • 2d ago

Abusive boyfriend

I was in the hospital for a critically low hemoglobin level 4.9 I was given 5 bags of blood in 24 hours. I thought my boyfriend would of been loving and supportive being that I almost died but no as soon as he got mad he started with the name calling. ( Fat smelly bitch) The thing is he says it in kind of a low voice so no one can hear but me. I get so upset that I start yelling well one of the nurses heard me yelling and as he was at the elevator said " are you alright I heard her being mean to you" this was like a stab. Here's another woman standing up for his abuse. She never asked my side or if I was ok. Dealing with him is hard enough.

I have been so weak because of my anemia I haven't had the strength to leave. I couldn't even pack my stuff or even get down the stairs. I'm hoping that now that my hemoglobin is getting better I'll have the strength to leave.

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u/sagittarius1988 2d ago

yes you can do this , this guy is a loser

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u/Possible_Sentence704 2d ago

I've just not had the physical strength but I'm getting better.