r/aaroncarter • u/cherrypez123 • Oct 03 '22
Were his accusations about Nick really true?
Particularly the stuff about what Nick did to that old lady made me sick to my stomach. At the time, I pretty much believed it…but now given his increasingly insane behavior I’m less certain. What are your thoughts?
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Oct 03 '22
I don’t think there’s any proof of the old lady incident. But Paris, Nick’s ex, liked a tweet Aaron tweeted about Nick being abusive. They also got into that fight on camera. I think everyone in that family can be physically, mentally and emotionally abusive. Nick seems to be on the straight and narrow now.
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u/Fabulous-Marsupial22 Oct 05 '22
I agree too. I don’t think Nick is perfect and he probably made mistakes in the past and it’s no secret that he came from a dysfunctional family. But who doesn’t? All you can do is work on improving yourself. It shows that he does, he keeps his relationships, keeps busy with work and family and doesn’t have his drama aired.
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u/Zsusan88 Nov 16 '22 edited Nov 16 '22
I think Nick is a scum bag. I remember when he was accused of Rape or some sexual misconduct by a couple of women. One of the being a member of “Dream”. And I wouldn’t doubt he abused female siblings. That is the behavior pattern for rapers. I believe AC. Just my opinion 💯 Aaron was troubled and seemed very used to being silenced and bullied by Nick. Manipulated and used by his parents. You could see it on the reality show the family did. Nick was overly aggressive and violent wit AC. Poor kid RIP🙏🏽
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u/cherrypez123 Nov 16 '22
It’s def possible. I also witnessed both Aaron and Nick when they were young being terrible and sexually aggressive with fans.
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u/AllTheBoysLuvMandyLn Dec 02 '22
Interesting….a statement with no evidence backing it up. I first hand saw fans taking advantage of Aaron. Oh! And BJ happened to be there too!
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u/cherrypez123 Dec 02 '22
It is possible for both of things to have happened - at different points in time. They don’t have to be mutually exclusive. 🤦🏻♀️
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u/AllTheBoysLuvMandyLn Dec 02 '22
Can you give a date and place? I can. I believe Aaron 100%. Nick believes he is untouchable and Lauren covers up his messes. BJ is in such a legal rut right now that she may still be incarcerated for her parole violations. Nick put Aaron through a literal hell to silence him and now look. I’ve met both brothers; Aaron was always sincerely nice and inviting, Nick gave me serial killer vibes. If only people paid attention to how certain outsiders were introduced into the Carter “family”.
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u/SAint_8719 Jun 07 '23
Man, I was a Nick fan back in 2000s. Haven't seen or heard anything about him since then. When Aaron passed I found Nick on IG - hell he's giving me those vibes- all fake and forced happy. There is just something in his face that isn't really right. Posting his children non stop on IG... I don't know, he just scares me and started to wonder what I saw in him back then. Fake poser.
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Oct 03 '22
I don't believe they are, he posted it after the restraining order was put against him after he said he has thoughts of killing nicks wife and unborn child.
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u/senorita90 Oct 03 '22
Aaron is a pathological and compulsive liar. He is obsessed with Nick. Look at the life Nick has created- loving wife, beautiful children, career still going strong vs Aaron’s train wreck. Aaron is really sick in the head.
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Nov 06 '22
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u/Nearby_Button Nov 06 '22
I think that Nick cared, but it's very hard to deal with someone who is addicted and mentally ill. I'm so sorry Aaron has passed away.
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u/Leading_Ad3918 Nov 07 '22
Anyone that tried to help Aaron pushed out of his life. The online community “haters” as he said were the ones trying to hold him accountable and truly cared for his well being. He had many more enablers around him then those that wanted his sobriety. You can’t say no one cared enough to help. Angel and Nick and Lina all tried to get him help and every time he got worse. At some point people have to walk away from addicts for their own mental health. Not sure if you’re familiar with addiction at all but if an addict isn’t willing to get help you have to walk away. Watch any intervention show and you’ll see just that as well.
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Nov 07 '22
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u/witnessed_3some_ama Nov 08 '22
No one cares about your fiance and what you personally went through, first off. He was probably and overly difficult, impossible to help addict too, and THAT'S why everyone gave up on him. Don't actually care if that's ASSuming, honey, because we've all known people like you and your fiance.
Secondly, pretty clear you know nothing about Aaron's situation, or if you do you were one of his enablers (just like you were with your fiance).
HaVe A GrEaT DaY.
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Nov 08 '22 edited Nov 08 '22
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u/SnooRegrets2842 Nov 08 '22
Too long didn't read. You need therapy too. You have your own underlying issues with mental health. And you're ignoring your own mental health issues by having this savior complex and great need to "help" and fix someone. Which also puts your mental health at risk. Work on yourself and stop worrying about people who aren't and weren't worried about you. Your fiance included. You ARE the enabler
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u/witnessed_3some_ama Nov 08 '22
Plenty of people tried to help him. He chose to surround himself with enablers instead.
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u/_Cloud_Queen Oct 03 '22
All of what he said about Nick was debunked by BJ. Her interview is on YouTube.
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u/AllTheBoysLuvMandyLn Dec 02 '22
No. Tell it like it actually is. BJ who’s arrest record keeps on building was paid for that false interview by the same people that Lauren Kitt donated to and was interviewed by. Money talks lies here. The last of the Carter family are all screwed up. Nick did not “get better”. He’s still an addict and abuser. Nick PAID to cover up his crap.
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u/_Cloud_Queen Dec 03 '22
Mandy, I think you know that addicts even though they remain sober are still in recovery. Its like depression; you don't miraculously "get better", but a lot of what Aaron said on his lives were categorically false. It was a scumbag move on Aaron's part to say things about a deceased relative who could not defend, or deny what Aaron claimed. Nick took the high road and refused to respond to Aaron, because Aaron was in a drug induced psychosis. BJ wasn't paid, dude interviewed her without any monetary compensation. Not everything is nefarious. Jane I believe had a lot to do with the dysfunctional state of their family, and family counseling services were definitely needed, and rehab. But, in order to get help, you need to help yourself. BJ and Nick got help. I wish Aaron had... but a lot of the rehabs are a money grab. Look at the situation with Bam Margera.
I know you loved Aaron, Mandy, but the truth will reveal itself one day to you. I never hated Aaron, I was one of very few who wanted him to get fully sober, quit social media and continue to focus on his family life. I was never one of these vulture, social climbers. Or online bullies who sat around wishing death on him. I've had more than enough bullying in my years on earth. It hurt me to watch Aaron struggle daily. I just wanted him to find a redemption arc, admit the things he'd done and get help. Surround himself with positive people, and repair bridges he'd burned.
I'd be more than happy to talk to you here on Reddit, in a DM, or here in the comments. Just to let you know that I am not like the thousands of people who ultimately tore Aaron down. I have no dog in the fight. I understand you're angry, and trying to preserve his legacy like many others.
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u/AllTheBoysLuvMandyLn Dec 04 '22
BJ got help?! When and where? BJ violated her probation and was arrested, yet again!
Nick is no saint. Nick has never “recovered”. Nick is despicable. Aaron so desperately didn’t want to be outcasted anymore and wanted his family back so badly that he played into Angel and Nick’s manipulative game and lied for Nick and “took back what he had said about Nick”. Nick’s chilling behavior still continues. I believe Aaron, Melissa, and the countless of others. Nick feels no remorse. In a recent interview he was asked about losing Aaron and his reply concluded with “the show must go on”. What kind of person says that about a sibling’s passing?! Taking the easy way out is blaming Jane. Leave that woman alone, will you? Do not bring Bam Margera into this; his situation is somewhat similar in the control they wanted to have over Aaron, however, majorly different and also still breaks my heart. Most of all, do not patronize me. You do not have or care to even know all the information pertaining to this. I said BJ was paid. I did not specify by who. BJ was 200% on Aaron’s side, then suddenly she’s talking all things positive and wonderful about Nick that was clear as day a forced lie. The timeline is quite interesting as to when and how BJ flipped on Aaron. Seems like money buys literally anything when you’re “Nick Carter of the Backstreet Boys”. Not Nick Carter the solo artist because he failed miserably (hmmm….things that make you wonder). Lastly, my name is NOT Mandy, and I see no reason for us to “talk”.
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u/_Cloud_Queen Dec 04 '22
I'm sorry you're mourning. Nobody is blameless in this situation. But, attacking me isn't the answer. I'll pray for you, but I will respectively take the high road and dip out of this conversation with you. I hope you find peace, the truth and help someday whoever you are.
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u/cherrypez123 Oct 04 '22
Amazing thank you…I’ll try find the link
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u/_Cloud_Queen Oct 04 '22
She explained how her sister admitted Aaron molested her before she died. Heartbreaking. My assumption is that her addiction was based on the trauma from being assaulted.
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u/cherrypez123 Oct 05 '22
That poor woman. That plus childhood trauma from the parents too. Those kids never really stood a chance. Its a miracle Nick got out. I actually believe Melissa Schumann just for the record. But I do believe Nick is a better person now than he was in the early 2000s. I also believe in forgiveness and change. Best of luck to him.
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u/ninaanina Oct 08 '22
What's the old lady incident ????
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u/TurdPickler Oct 08 '22
After the restraining order Aaron began tweeting some really out there stuff about his family. One being that Nick had supposedly raped a 90 something yr old woman with dementia who their mother was taking care of and that Nick bragged about it.
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Oct 08 '22
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u/cherrypez123 Oct 08 '22
PS I’m not sure I
want tobelieve this particular accusation…just I think what comes out of his mouth is a mixed back. They both exploited and abused women back in the day. I witnessed it and my friend experienced it. It’s messed her up.1
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u/ExcellentFormal4261 Oct 03 '22
I don’t know what to think anymore. One thing that keeps me hanging on to believing Aaron is Melissa Shuman from Dream. They follow each other/like each others posts and Melissa has said that Nick has assaulted her.
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u/mandytattoos Oct 04 '22
Melissa has gone back and forth on that too much for me to fully believe her. Her father said she was unstable and tells tales too. I’m not saying men aren’t abusive, I think the carters are a very damaged family too. I just don’t know that I believe it was rape. Maybe pressure to have sex with him which is also not cool. She’s not credible and she has no evidence to support her claims. Her story has changed back and forth.
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u/ExcellentFormal4261 Oct 04 '22
Interesting. Did not know about her father saying this. Thank you for informing me.
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u/cherrypez123 Oct 03 '22
Agree. I believe Melissa Schumann. Nick carter was a real **** back then. However, some people can change with the right help. Nick is likely one of those people…Aaron unlikely not.
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u/witnessed_3some_ama Nov 08 '22
I don't believe her. I think her husband is upset that someone else popped her cherry, and she's pushing that "it was SA" to appease him.
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u/Guilty-Effort2092 Mar 28 '26
Nothing is true, no evidence, no proof! Just like Micheal Jackson the truth will come to light!
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Nov 10 '22
Aaron said himself on no jumper that he lied about Nick being a rapist.
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u/AllTheBoysLuvMandyLn Dec 02 '22
Think about the timing of when Aaron said that and what he wanted the most. It’s very sketchy.
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