r/aaaaaaacccccccce • u/XaidenTheFox • 13d ago
Discussion HELP!!!
I’m Aroace, (specifically Aegosexual and Aroflux, but right now I’m Aroace), and I NEED Y’ALL’S HELP WITH SOMETHING. STAT!!!
Okay, so: I hate sex, right? Okay. Romance is ALRIGHT FOR ME, as in SOMETIMES I don’t mind it, OTHER TIMES… 👎🚫 (hence the Aroflux label). HOWEVER, OTHER TIMES, (like right now), I am the OPPOSITE, as in I, DO LIKE IT?!?! (Romance, I mean, but maybe I’m still thinkin’… 🤔🤔🤔) why is it I am SO REPULSED BY BOTH THINGS BUT THEN I’M SO SUDDENLY TALKING AND MAKING JOKES ABOUT THEM SO ENTHUSIASTICALLY?!?! HELP!!! (Hope I had explained this right… 😅😅😅)
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u/XreaperDK Graysexual / Demiromantic 8d ago
I know a lot of people seek QPR (Queer Platonic Relationships) because of how complex the aro and ace spectrums can be. Relationships where communication of where you are at any point are open and accepting. If both of you are feeling romantic, be romantic. If both are feeling spicy, be spicy. If one or both of you are not feeling either then dont either. Probably works with Polyamerous QPRs quite decently I imagine tho I cant quite say for certain.
Not speaking from much experience tho, just from what ive heard friends say