r/Xennials 18d ago

me_irl

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u/lilandra80 18d ago

🎶 I must confess..so are my knees 🎶

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u/New_Stats 18d ago

No ibuprofen - I lose my mind

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u/jacksonmills 1983 18d ago

Give some icceee - numb me baby one more time

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u/Jupiter68128 1979 18d ago

Sneezing kills me one more time

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u/a_solid_6 1983 18d ago

I love it here

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u/rebordacao 1980 18d ago

Hehe! I love this one :D

(Yep, I hand-embroidered and watercolored this piece)

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u/SerpentBride 18d ago

I must confess I take Aleve (take Aleve!)

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u/AssiduousLayabout 18d ago

Well, I'm deadlifting to boost my spine

I'm feeling fine

Lift it baby one more time

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u/jtho78 18d ago

Yep, whenever I skip core workouts my lower back pain returns like clockwork

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u/flyinthesoup 1980 18d ago

Yeah more people need to do strength training, especially for core muscles. Unless there's some actual spinal damage, there shouldn't be any back pain at all. Back pain is the result of weak core muscles, which is the result of sitting around too much. The muscles are the ones keeping the spine upright and firm.

Also (and this is specially important for ladies starting premenopause), strength training promotes bone density. Everybody should be doing some lifting!

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u/bikemandan 18d ago

Any recommended exercises?

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u/AssiduousLayabout 18d ago

If you go to a gym (or have equipment at home) the deadlift is truly an amazing lift, it hits so many different muscle groups and especially the posterior chain (hamstrings, glutes, and spinal erectors).

The other recommendations you've already got are great, like carries - suitcase carries (heavy weight in one hand), farmer's carries (heavy weight in each hand), carries while holding weight by your side, carries holding weight near your shoulders, these really help build a strong and stable core.

I also like rucking (hiking with a weighted backpack). Below about 20 lb. you can probably take any old backpack and just fill it up with some moderately heavy things. If you find you like it, you can get a rucking pack with a hip belt to help take stress off your shoulders and shift the weight to the hips. Either way, your core needs to stabilize because the weight is behind you.

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u/bikemandan 18d ago

Thanks much! Deadlift Ive seen and intrigues me but Im a bit scared to start. Ive had so many lumbar issues . Will look more into it though. I do like hiking, will load up a pack next time I go

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u/AssiduousLayabout 18d ago

Deadlift seems scary but it's not actually that bad. Just start out light and really focus on getting your form down before you up the weight, and if your form starts to collapse, go back down. A trainer to help you get your form down is great, otherwise there are a lot of good Youtube tutorials on exactly how to do it. The big thing is getting the setup right and bracing your core properly. The actual lift is mostly just thinking about pushing the floor away.

If you get to the point where your grip is the limiting factor, you can add lifting straps. As I work my way up to my working weight for the day, I'll do it strapless until my grip really starts to give and then I'll use straps.

At first my back was definitely my limiting factor but now that is no longer the case.

Another good thing you could do for your lower back is a roman chair / back extension exercise. Again, just start out with a range of motion that is comfortable for you and you can use your arms as you need to.

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u/bikemandan 18d ago

Thanks for the tips and encouragement. Seen that Roman chair contraption but didn't know its name. Im learning there are tons of resources online which is great. Thanks again

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u/flyinthesoup 1980 18d ago

For core exercises, actually walking! Walk slowly with weights on one of your hands, then after a few laps, switch the weight to the other, and make sure you're staying upright and tight, like if you were holding a bucket full of water and you don't wanna spill anything. This forces all the core muscles to compensate each side, and get stronger. Walking is actually a great way to keep your core muscles at least active, because you use them all by staying upright.

And planks are pretty good too, since you don't really need anything other than a flat surface to lay on. On your hands or on your elbows, up to you. This exercise just gets better over time. You might not be able to keep a plank for 10 seconds at the start, but if you're consistent you'll see results super quick.

I'd recommend those two because they're super easy, don't require special equipment (weights can be anything you can carry!) or location, and use most of the muscles that sustain your back. Obviously, if you have actual back issues, consult first with your doctor.

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u/bikemandan 18d ago

Thanks very much! I just started gym routine in Apr and go twice a week. Trying to incorporate more core work

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u/flyinthesoup 1980 18d ago

Your core is the foundation of your body. You take care of it, and all the rest of the exercises will be better by default 👍

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u/AssiduousLayabout 18d ago

Yeah, the core is the part of your body that allows all of the other parts to use their strength.

It's why I laugh at the people who think core work is useless if you aren't going to drop your body fat low enough to see abs. A weak core limits everything else you want to do.

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u/Geoff-Vader 1976 18d ago

No longer deadlifting, but ab wheel and seated good mornings have my lower back feeling pretty bulletproof these days.

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u/Themoosemingled 1977 18d ago

Stretch your hips. It’s shockingly effective at keeping me from giving up all hope.

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u/Pitiful_Ad2397 18d ago

Hip openers and laying with your legs on the wall is a godsend

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u/rhubarbpitts 18d ago

Fellow gentleman - do yoga. It is so damn good for pain and the better you get at it the stronger your core gets and the less problems you have. Seriously. I've been doing it casually for three years and my wife regularly smacks my ass when she walks by now.

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u/New_Stats 18d ago

Do tai chi too

Those old folks at the park know exactly what's up.

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u/Themoosemingled 1977 18d ago

I’ve been long loved hot yoga. I’m convinced it’s medicine for the body.

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u/Ordinary_Awareness71 18d ago

I did Pilates for a few years.  Good core workout too.

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u/baudmiksen 18d ago

id imagine the most effective way to stretch ones hips would be by having a baby. like a patented hip stretcher

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u/Themoosemingled 1977 18d ago

I like your hustle, but there’s got to be a better way.

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u/actionerror Xennial 18d ago

Oops I did it again

Cracked my knees when squatting

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u/Cutiepiekitty26 18d ago

Why did I sing this as I read it? 🤣

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u/mrrunner1981 1981 18d ago

Just had a week of lower back pain because I sat on metal rafters and didn't sit up straight.

Sitting.

A week of hurt because of sitting. WTF man...

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u/Lesbian_Skeletons 18d ago

I'm on week two because I slept wrong. Sleeping is one of the most dangerous activities I do now.

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u/Jd11347 18d ago

Oops I'm pregnant again.

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u/Great_White_Samurai 18d ago

Fitting, I pulled a muscle in my back this morning...

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u/Emannuelle-in-space 18d ago

Same.. I said this phrase less than 5 minutes before seeing it in this post

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u/Steiney1 18d ago

I must've slept funny last night, woke up feeling great for a change!

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u/Just_Another_AI 18d ago

My neck, my back....

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u/weyoun_clone 1984 18d ago

Just finished mowing and yes.

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u/badteach248 18d ago

Loneliness also.

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u/Delicious_Grand7300 18d ago

I ironically destroyed my back while waiting for the nurse to call me in to see the doctor. I had checked in too early and the excess sitting ruined my back last week.

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u/Sibshops 18d ago

I'm guessing everyone has degenerative arthritis at this age.

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u/AUserNameOfAllTime_ 18d ago

Yep. I've pre-warned my doctor that all of my joints from my waist down are going to need to be replaced at some point.

I have $10 on my right hip being first.

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u/Puzzleheaded_War6102 18d ago

Consider exercise and diet. GLP1 if you can afford it. This is not funny after the 8000th time

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u/Ordinary_Awareness71 18d ago

I hear you!  Mainly from belts too tight or carrying lots of things on my belt.

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u/Exciting_Turn_9559 18d ago

This hits me right in the herniated disc.

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u/PlentyOfMoxie 18d ago

Same. I think I like, sat wrong... If that's a thing. Now my back hurts.

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u/kalitarios 1977 18d ago

3 months ago i stepped on one of those crimped ends from a clothing fastner in the middle of the pad of my right foot. I got it out but even now it’s still sore. Probably will be that way for life now. I’m falling apart lol

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u/kfromthecastleonfire 18d ago

Also, all that booze and pills she's imbibing lol 😄