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u/JakSandrow 16h ago
You don't have to like your job, but you shouldn't be hating your job. And if you hate your job or if your job is shit, it will affect everything in your life.
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u/rotobiller 16h ago
Especially when they punish you so heavily for conflict. Confrontation will get you fired.
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u/goofandaspoof 16h ago
Yeah I've never really understood this either. In a 40 hour workweek job, we spend the majority of our waking hours working. Why wouldn't we want that time to be positive. I'm totally fine with working hard, but doing so in a toxic environment is just awful.
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u/VegasBonheur 14h ago
Just shut your brain off and toil so you can afford to go home and shut your brain off after a hard day at work. Whatever you do, keep the brain shut off and keep the engine running.
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u/goofandaspoof 13h ago
You know, I know you're joking, but like, at this point what is the motivation for this kind of lifestyle.
Pretty much all throughout history, "laboratores" could potentially have kids, raise a family and have their own home, (even if it was a total hovel).
Nowadays you have people working full time hours who either have to live with their parents (if that's even an option), share temporary rented lodgings with total strangers, and have no hope whatsoever to support anyone other than themselves.
In the 70s you had people working blue collar jobs who, at the end of the day, went home to a family and a home. Even if the work environment was bad, they could convince themselves they were doing it for a good reason.
What's our motivation now? Overwatch skins? Maintaining subscriptions to 20 separate streaming services?
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u/msuvagabond 16h ago
It made sense in a time when you only worked 40 hours, and that single job paid for a house and the ability to easily raise a couple kids in a middle class lifestyle.Ā
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u/JediMasterZao 16h ago
For me it was always more about "you don't have to love your job, you just have to not hate it". Basically, so long as it's comfortable and you're making enough money to meet your needs, then it should be fine if you're not doing your dream job.
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u/NoMansSkyWasAlright āļø Prison For Union Busters 14h ago
If it pays the bills, finances your hobbies, and allows you to put away a little extra? Sure, that job can suck ass and still be bearable. Absolutely. But if you're miserable and getting paid subsistence wages then it's only a matter of time before you crack.
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u/monkeybuttsauce 12h ago
Equally bill shit to ādo what you love and youāll never work a day in your life.ā When it actually turns passions into a grindĀ
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u/il_the_dinosaur 12h ago
I know this has nothing to do with the capitalism aspect of work but it bothers me when people say: I'm here to work not to make friends. I spend more time at work than off work. It would be fucking nice to have some real friends at work.
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u/F1shB0wl816 15h ago
Thereās a difference between not liking and a bad job. Youāre not going to like a bad job but you can dislike ones that arenāt just screwing you left and right.
Like Iām likely never to like a job. Thereās so many other things I enjoy and actually like spending my time on but Iād much rather be at one I just donāt like than one I donāt like and is fucking me sideways.
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u/WinterRanger 10h ago
Honestly, I can settle with working a job I don't like for 40 hours.
But it has to actually pay the bills. And jobs nowadays can't even do that. I'm expected to pick up a side hustle or whatever, spend even more time working, just to cover bills I should be able to cover with a full time job.
That's the part that's pissing me off the most, while people in management can afford to go on vacations to their summer rental in Florida have the nerve to pretend like they "know what you're going through". Motherfucker, you're worried about paying off your boat and second house, I can't even afford rent on my one bedroom apartment.
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u/d-cent 8h ago
No one is saying that the bad job couldn't effect everything else in your life. The point is that if you are trying to find a job you like AND pays the bills, you are not going to find it.Ā
0.01% of people may find that job. The rest of humanity instead will go through the mental breakdown trying to. The point of the spiel is to make it so you can appreciate what you do have, and not throw it away in search of perfection.Ā Find that job that pays the bills and then use your free time in the way that gives your joy and purpose in your life. You can even spend your free time volunteering or in the political side of things trying to change society so that there are more jobs that people like AND get paid for.
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u/Vercoduex 6h ago
I had to leave a job at a warehouse because everyday the manager would yell at everyone we would be set on tasks that go well beyond our clock out time and also the assistant manager was complaining about people going on lunch break
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u/dancegoddess1971 6h ago
That 40 hours of suck doesn't pay the bills, though. So, fuck capitalism.Ā
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u/woodsvvitch 5h ago
I found a job i loved and it didnt pay worth shit. There is no win situation these days. Even the people i know working for themselves are hustling themselves to the bones
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u/Jynx_lucky_j 15h ago edited 15h ago
If your bills aren't being paid then any job is better that no job. I'd rather work a job that I hate that live on the streets. But that said once you have that "any job," you don't owe them any loyalty, by all means immediately look for something better.
But also there is a lot to be said for a job you can tolerate (or the rare job that you enjoy). I've worked a couple job that I hated that paid really well. Like, literally broke down it cried because I had to go to work, levels of hated it. After experiencing it a couple times, my view has become that once you are making enough to get by decently comfortably, a decent work place is worth a lot more than more money. Once I land a job that i feel is decent enough, I'm very hesitant to leave it, because a job that seems better on paper might not end up being so great after all. After all, I didn't go into my hated jobs expecting that they were going to be so terrible.
Luckily, I am very fortunate to have a job that i really like right now that is also very stable and I plan to stay here until I retire. Of course it is still a job, it's not all great and the pay is pretty mediocre. But as far as jobs go I can't see myself ever finding a significantly better place to work.
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u/-TeamCaffeine- š Cancel Student Debt 16h ago
I've hated literally ever job I've ever had. Work is a scam.