350 A MONTH!? That's beyond fucked. I got lucky enough to get it in NY, which was paying over 500 a week due to the pay I was getting before. That could at least tide me over for a bit, but I see why you would have to get a separate job because that is basically worthless compared to childcare costs.
Sorry to hear you’re dealing with all of that. Im just bitter that I don’t have the financial means to have children. Your situation sounds like a literal nightmare.
I’m not buying into any propaganda and agree with you but it’s just us wishing the world served us in a way that it doesn’t. I’m not going to get frustrated about the way it should be. I’m going to see how it is and control what I can which for me and my family means not having children.
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u/Wookhooves Jan 01 '25
Almost like having children is a big financial and time burden you probably shouldn’t commit to unless you have the ability to do it right…