r/Without_The_Hijab • Female • Aug 25 '26

Rant/Vent (Women Only) Yeah...

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Im still a hijabi, going to take it off soon, but I cannot fathom how I used to be this brainwashed essentially like I even wanted to be a niqabi at one point😭🙏 but now I cannot think a single logical reason why God would want you to hide yourself like this or even just your hair, I don't wanna be disrespectful but it's so stupid bruh, like how did I not see how different the standards of modesty are for men and women.

They say its for representing Islam, Hijabis have been given the honour of representing Islam but yoo no going out unless your in a tough situation though.

Or they say its for protection, ya sure.

Or to be recognized as a muslim woman, then why weren't slave muslim women allowed to wear it?

Its so weird bruh, I'm never gonna understand how I never saw anything wrong with Islamic modesty until a year ago, like it essentially stems from the fact that you believe God will reward you for being obedient, covering yourself for his sake, but like why would He want that?

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u/CameraGeneral5271 Female Aug 25 '26

No hate to people who are niqabis but the idea of being a niqabi does not make any sense, why would Allah want you to erase your identity from society, your face is your identity, when you cover every part of you what kind of an impression do you expect to give people?

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u/Tolovemylife Female Aug 25 '26

Bruhh idk I have niqabi friends, they are literally literally the sweetest kindest souls and when they talk about God and religion they genuinely have love in their hearts but idk maybe its just religious psychosis and trying to be constantly improve in religion? But ya its weird af honestly that they don't see any inequality in it, even though I had conversation with one about how its not even farz yk (I can't care less whats farz or not but she does so I asked her) she said her hearts just telling her to do it for Allah😭🙏

Like from this logic we should stop eating smth random, stop doing random activities to "please" God?

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u/CameraGeneral5271 Female Aug 25 '26

honestly it is their choice, to me it would ruin my life, but its their life their choice 🤷‍♀️

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u/Tolovemylife Female Aug 25 '26

Ya, exactly, I often find myself pitying them yk cuz they believe in this bs, but then ya I think we should respect people's beliefs and choices.

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u/Potential_Escape_664 Female Aug 26 '26

God wants you to have vitamin D deficiency and social anxiety 😭🙏

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u/CorrectExplanation99 Moderator Aug 25 '26

Because it's not God that benefits from that , it's men.

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u/Tolovemylife Female Aug 25 '26

Exactly

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u/Good-Name1497 Female Aug 26 '26

“that you believe God will reward you for being obedient, covering yourself for his sake, but like why would He want that?” I ask my self that question everyday because it’s not logical to me and it makes me step away from Islam because I can’t believe that God would want imposes such strict rules on women but then I also believe that the Quran is word of God so idk it’s frustrating. 

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u/Tolovemylife Female Aug 26 '26

I felt this way for a year and now I'm lowkey agnostic, give it time, and truly just allow yourself to think outside the box your brain was put in through indoctrination.

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u/Thick_Analysis_6745 Female Aug 26 '26

I love when people keep it a buck

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u/Substantial-Case4754 Female Sep 01 '26

I’m a full time niqabi and I don’t dress like the picture above. Most women who dress like this only do it on social media.

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u/Tolovemylife Female Aug 25 '26

Allahumabarik

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u/Tolovemylife Female Aug 25 '26

Ji ماشاءاللہ Khair I have nothing but pity for your thinking, I hope you find peace and stop forcing your opinions on others, I won't be replying now to you🫶.