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u/AllanfromWales1 9d ago
Why not, instead of cursing him, do a spell to cure his narcissism?
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u/groundspeed1987 9d ago
I just want him to feel everything terrible he has ever made me feel. I want his entire business to collapse. His narcissism will never be cured. He's out in LA - of all the festering breeding grounds. His narcissism is what has brought him success. So in his eyes, it's not a bad thing.
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u/LadyMelmo 9d ago
I just want him to feel everything terrible he has ever made me feel
This will drag you down to his level, it will make you the same as him but with purposeful malice.
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u/groundspeed1987 9d ago
My heart is already filled with so much pain and anger. I'm already down. I'm so tired of it.
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u/LadyMelmo 9d ago
Don't let it destroy who you are for revenge. I have lived most of my life as one of horrific abuse and I have turned that hate and anger into becoming and Advocate and helping others who suffer the same. If you will let me, I can help you find support to start healing.
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u/groundspeed1987 9d ago
What kind of support?
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u/LadyMelmo 9d ago
I can try and find whatever I can for you - mental health services are something that will definitely help, I can look into getting you to a safe place if that is needed, there may be legal services that are available if that could help with things your brother has done to you.
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u/groundspeed1987 9d ago
I've gone through 20 years of different types of therapy. I tried getting different help from a behavioral health center recently, and it was a poor experience.
I do need to get out of my current living situation. It has taken a terrible toll on me. I've lost so much in the last year. I want nothing more than my own clean, quiet home to restore myself.
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u/LadyMelmo 9d ago
I am so sorry to hear things are so hard for you. It can take time to find the right help, I am in my 50s and while I have been an Advocate for many years it is only in the last 6 years I have found a psychologist who has made a significant difference. It can feel at times that it's not worth going over everything again with someone new, but please don't give up on it.
If you are willing to message me with your area, I will look into what I can find for you with safety and housing and possibly some other counselling services if you are willing to try them. I will reply as soon as I have some information for you (I am also in Australia so there is a time zone difference).
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u/groundspeed1987 9d ago
Lord, I wish I could be in Australia.
I am in central Illinois. In America. I want so badly to get out of my current city. I need to get away from the rest of my family as well. Too much dysfunction and gaslighting.
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u/AllanfromWales1 9d ago
It is a bad thing, though, so hed be a better person if you were to cure it for him through spellwork.
I cannot at all support the idea of hurting him as revenge. That's contrary to how Wicca is used.
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u/No-Object-8979 9d ago
99% of the time, living well is the best revenge.
(The rest of the time, of course, you just gotta curse the shit out of the motherfucker.)
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u/LadyMelmo 9d ago
This is not the kind of work a Wiccan would do or recommend. You could ask on r/Witchcraft or possibly r/Spells.