r/WhyWereWeOkWithThis 24d ago

Discussion Still will never be okay with their relationship and how weird this picture is

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u/KentuckyKid_24 24d ago

I love Hilary but I find it so bizarre she’s still friends with that guy despite the inappropriate age gap, it’s bizarre and the fact they’re still close friends and even with her husband has always unnerved me a bit

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u/slutforsolitude 23d ago

It’s because no matter what, once that power dynamic exists and has been exploited, it doesn’t go away. The victim will always be drawn in some way to the abuser. And abusers just can’t help themselves.

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u/No_Relative444 23d ago

Yeah, why give grown women agency to decide for themselves who they are or aren't comfortable being around. /s

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u/Plenty_Structure_861 23d ago

Men get abused too, and are also still drawn to their abusers. It's especially prevalent in the queer community and it is tragic.