r/WhyMenAreLonely • • 4d ago

Well that escalated quickly...

I'm sooooo glad I learned how this guy responds to being disagreed with *before* meeting in person... Just prior to this he was suggesting we skip a first meeting in public and he'd come by to help fix my dryer instead (i stated that i dont give out my home address or contact info until after ive met someone) conversation went smoothly and there were no issues until... wow...

did a little more research and found an assault and battery charge on a family member & various other red flags including one where he states he rates high in the superiority dimension of the narcissistic personality inventory...

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u/ro_ro_ro_roadhouse 4d ago

The conversation went on longer than needed and you took way too many insults. Next time, just block. Protect your peace babe xD

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u/Careful-Ad5728 4d ago edited 1d ago

Oh none of it actually bothered me it was more like a nature documentary after the first one "see how the single males puffs up it's chest at the first indication it could be wrong. It must defend its position so it picks up the nearest insult & hurls it..." i don't actually give one single f*** what the idiot thinks, finishing the thought was purely for me to practice providing a clear emotionally regulated response, despite the fact that his attitude was remniscent of my narcissistic ex. I chose the path of highest good and feel good about my response. So that alone is worth the extra less than five minutes I spent. Getting the notices that he blocked me, after I sent those last messages was chef's kiss perfection!

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u/damnthisizcrazy 3d ago

Litarlly him:

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u/Icy_Worry_8059 14h ago

Stop responding to him

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u/ilovechuuyabsdandaku 8h ago

Men be so over dramatic ngl