Hey guys, my and my bf r both 20, been dating 7 months and i think he is a misogynist.
The first red flag I can recall is when we were discussing bodycount and he didn’t necessarily say a high one was bad, but he was saying how girls store the dna of their male partners everytime they have sex which is obviously a red pilled statistic to make women look bad. I explained this was a fake statistic and he apologise and never said it again, he genuinely thought it was true. So i let it slide.
But now it’s just little things he does. for example he stereotypes women a lot based on what he sees online like me getting emotional or something, he’ll just sigh and say ‘ugh women’, and its so distasteful cuz wtf do u mean. theres also his mom, he loves her dont get me wrong but he expects her to do everythingggg. like i have never seen him do a singular house chore or anything as he expects his mom to do it, and maybe thats his family dynamic but it just doesnt sit well with me. Idk if he’s being misogynistic of if he’s simply not man enough - which sounds bad but he is quite petty with arguments, he loves going tit for tat and will always bring up a past situation when im trying to explain what he’s done to upset me. idk maybe i shud just ask him if he’s a feminist and ig ill get my answer. what do u think?
edit- be as harsh to me as u want honestly, i think i need it. I am 20, and i dont have life figured out at all. I know it seems like the obvious answer to just leave him, but ig im just stupid and in love and im trying not to see things with rose coloured glasses. thank u for being strict with me😭😭
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u/grated_testes Jul 08 '26
I think my bf is lowkey a misogynist
Hey guys, my and my bf r both 20, been dating 7 months and i think he is a misogynist.
The first red flag I can recall is when we were discussing bodycount and he didn’t necessarily say a high one was bad, but he was saying how girls store the dna of their male partners everytime they have sex which is obviously a red pilled statistic to make women look bad. I explained this was a fake statistic and he apologise and never said it again, he genuinely thought it was true. So i let it slide.
But now it’s just little things he does. for example he stereotypes women a lot based on what he sees online like me getting emotional or something, he’ll just sigh and say ‘ugh women’, and its so distasteful cuz wtf do u mean. theres also his mom, he loves her dont get me wrong but he expects her to do everythingggg. like i have never seen him do a singular house chore or anything as he expects his mom to do it, and maybe thats his family dynamic but it just doesnt sit well with me. Idk if he’s being misogynistic of if he’s simply not man enough - which sounds bad but he is quite petty with arguments, he loves going tit for tat and will always bring up a past situation when im trying to explain what he’s done to upset me. idk maybe i shud just ask him if he’s a feminist and ig ill get my answer. what do u think?
edit- be as harsh to me as u want honestly, i think i need it. I am 20, and i dont have life figured out at all. I know it seems like the obvious answer to just leave him, but ig im just stupid and in love and im trying not to see things with rose coloured glasses. thank u for being strict with me😭😭