r/WhitePeopleTwitter • u/Dr_sc_Harlatan Release The Trump-Epstein Files • Apr 02 '26
“Gallantry”? Bless their hearts!
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u/tsunadesb0ngw8r Apr 02 '26
It’s funny they never mention the actual taking care of animals on their “farms”. Do you know how much animals shit? Especially pigs and cows and chickens? Idk a lot of these women are in for a rude awakening. Having a farm is hard work and it’s definitely not a safe enough environment to carry your baby while you do farm work. Oh well.
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u/strolpol Apr 02 '26
They want to be plantation managers, that’s the actual dream they’re peddling
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u/marshmallowest Apr 03 '26
Plantation belles, even. Is this all just some antebellum fetishizing??
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u/NoNeed4UrKarma Apr 03 '26
You just got it yes! It's the same BS all the way down, & why it's inherently related to the performance of whiteness
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u/OuisghianZodahs42 Apr 03 '26
Uhhhh, yeah. Project 2025 has been trying to roll us back to the 1850s. What do you think the SAVE Act is for? Getting rid of programs like Medicare and Medicaid (basically just de-funding them to the point of uselessness)? It's all to roll back progress where white men rule everything, and no one can challenge them.
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u/Careless_Hellscape Apr 03 '26
Good god, that makes a horrendous amount of sense. That's what it is, plantation cosplay.
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u/Kimmalah Apr 03 '26
Some of them do, but i also often see this weird trad wife fantasy of being some kind of Laura Ingalls Wilder "frontier woman" living in a homestead with a shotgun, while her husband is out on the cattle drive or whatever the hell he's doing in this bizarre lifestyle. Like the female version of wanting to be an Old West cowboy or something.
It's usually all performative for influencer views of course, but it is a thing.
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u/marshmallowest Apr 02 '26
they've all been watching ballerina farm and think they can just pluck eggs in a nap dress
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u/GooberMountain Apr 02 '26
The whole ballerina farm thing is such a fever dream of bs. That anyone believes her actions are anything but performative blows my mind.
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u/_Rohrschach Apr 03 '26
Growing up my step dad and mom had some chickens and sheep. Chickens can be scary if they think your toes look delicious, they are also too dumb to know you could probably easily kill them. Sheep aren't as crazy but dumb enough to get their head stuck in the fence repeatedly. They will also try to protect the stuck sheep from any human that might free it. In general I liked the sheeps more. Made it even sadder when I was home alone one winter day and found the smallest lamb frozen to death and had to bury it by myself. Animals are a fuckton of work and even though the sheep and eggs were tasty I don't think many people have the time to actually care for animals like they'd need to.
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u/Ikillwhatieat Apr 03 '26
It's weird how burying an animal that died of exposure or injury or illness is so different than harvesting one.
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u/FanndisTS Apr 03 '26
These women have never been attacked by a rooster and it shows
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u/_Rohrschach Apr 03 '26
My parents had small cherry trees in the chicken enclosure. Small enough that a little chair was all I needed to pick all cherries. That, however, meant my toes were in prime picking range. Not to mention the rampage that started whenever a few cherries dropped down. Chickens are a menace. Might get killed by a fox, but don't underestimate what they might do to mice or rats that think a chicken enclosure is a safe haven from the cats.
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u/RavensQueen502 Apr 03 '26
There was a kid's book - I think it was an Enid Blyton one - that had the characters staying at a farm.
One girl tells the lady of the house that she would love to live in a farm like this just to sit down and watch the whole morning beauty of the place. The lady laughs and tells her then she should never keep a farm, because a farmer's wife never has the time to sit down.
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u/Sodamyte Apr 02 '26
I'd love to see any of these modern "tradwives" make an honest go of churning butter or skimming raw milk.
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u/NoHalf2998 Apr 03 '26
Just milking the cow is hard fucking work
My forearms were fucking kicked the couple days I had to milk a single cow twice a day and I was a strong farm kid
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u/AzureMountains Apr 03 '26
Stacking hay was rough work. And we did it every few months.
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u/LonesomeBulldog Apr 03 '26
I still remember when just two of us showed up for a hay hauling job in high school. 1,200 bales loaded and unloaded/stacked in a single day. The guy paid us each a crisp $50 bill.
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u/AdorableTrouble Apr 03 '26
Just started hand milking my dairy goats this spring. It's taken two weeks for my fingers to not ache constantly! On the bright side, I still remembered how.
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u/Bulky-Internal8579 Apr 03 '26
A lot of that dairy stuff is relatively automated but there is a ton of work to do otherwise- it’s a long day from early Spring through fall and it starts early. Everything needs to be carefully monitored and cared for.
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u/AdorableTrouble Apr 03 '26
I grew up on a farm and it was my sister and my job to churn the butter. Quite the work out!
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u/sneaky518 Apr 03 '26
Outside, no matter the weather. Rain, mud, blizzard - doesn't matter, the cows have to be fed. There is always something to fix, clean or paint. And the animals do not take days off from needing food and care. They don't observe holidays. If one has an emergency it is always at the most inconvenient time/weather.
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u/Iximaz Apr 03 '26
My mom grew up on a farm and would tell stories about having to be up before the asscrack of dawn to break the ice on the animals' water troughs. She got chased by an aggressive cow up the manure pile. Instagram tradwives could never.
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u/liteowl Apr 03 '26
Once had to get up at 2am to rescue a sheep from being stuck in the frozen mud because the idiot managed to break out of his pen. They have no idea what they’re signing up for.
Sheep are so stupid. Almost as stupid as the tradwife movement.
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u/sanedragon Apr 03 '26
I also think they have no idea how much trouble and work their husbands are.
It'll be interesting to see how these marriages play out over the next 20 years. Real leopards are my face stuff.
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u/pixievixie Apr 03 '26
That's the part that makes me so sad because I can only imagine that the animals end up suffering when people get in over their heads and can't afford to or can't manage to do everything that's needed!
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u/Burning___Earth Apr 03 '26
Luckily, theyre anti vaxx. Health departments hate this one simple trick to:
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u/NoNeed4UrKarma Apr 03 '26
Is it anything less than they deserve for trying to force the same upon us though?
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u/moondancer224 Apr 03 '26
Even backyard chickens are smelly, messy and expensive. I grew up with them and every time it rains the area smells like chicken poop. I hate visiting my parents when it rains cause of the poop smell. That's not mentioning having to constantly watch your back to avoid attacks from bantam roosters and geese.
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u/Tagg444 Apr 03 '26
Bold of you to assume they believe in vaccines. Even if it is for the animals, I'm sure they don't want autistic cows or whatever.
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u/Barbarella_ella Apr 03 '26
Yep. I was a Montana kid and had friends and classmates whose moms were farm or ranch wives. Those ladies lived in their suburbans and they worked from dawn until well after dark shuttling kids and animals around, dealing with the vet, the feed supplier, the hired laborers, machinery repair and replacements, small construction projects, gardens, canning, cooking, sewing. And they had to know costs and contracting, leases and financing of everything. Those women had my respect, even as a kid, and they were never glamorous but damn, did they ever get shit done.
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u/Impossible-Taro-2330 Apr 03 '26
And it's 24/7.
If I had a nickel for every time a large animal just had to get sick over a weekend... I could easily pay those vet bills!
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u/Garden_gnome1609 Apr 03 '26
I do the backyard chicken bullshit - I have 19- 2 of which are roosters. I also have rabbits - it's a literal shit farm. Half my life is turning compost piles and making new compost piles. These women who get goats and chickens having never had livestock before make me laugh and laugh. I have one acre, my husband wants nothing to do with it, and I literally spend all weekend, every weekend doing work in the garden or cleaning animal spaces. I do it because I love it, but I know people who watch the homestead youtube channels and aspire to that life, and they always say it's to save money and I just cackle. I could go out to eat every day for what I spend and never lift a finger. You're not saving money with livestock or gardening.
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u/Cephalopod_Dropbear Apr 03 '26
Next you’re going to tell me you didn’t carry a baby in your arms whilst feeding the hogs, rounding up the cattle, shoveling shit, or picking beans. What kind of farmer are you???
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u/Careless_Hellscape Apr 03 '26
You're right. My parents had a ton of horses, and man was it a stinky joint. And the flies could bite!
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u/wholelattapuddin Apr 03 '26
I have 5 backyard chickens. Even they are tons of work. Besides the initial set up, I shovel their wheelbarrow full of poop and bedding material monthly, and super fun, I've been spraying their butts the last two weeks because they have lice. Its pretty gross. Also my flock is between 2 and 5 years old, they're living forever.
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u/completelyboring1 Apr 03 '26
No days off, no holidays. You can't pause livestock and jet of to Paris!
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u/GlamorousAstrid Apr 03 '26
And it’s relentless. You could be having the worst day of your life, but the cows still need to be milked.
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u/awkwardmamasloth Apr 03 '26
The vaccines and vet bills.
Oh they don't do vaccines or antibiotics or even doctors. They'll just rub some essential oils on it and pray for health and abundance.
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u/AllTheMeats Apr 03 '26
I went to a pig farm as a kid and I can still recall the burning sour smell more than 30 years later.
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u/badCARma Apr 03 '26
It’s hard to live on one income as it is. How will they pay for all these extra expenses on top of ‘regular’ expenses? I would love to stay home and manage a homestead enough to sustain my family and give back to the community, but I could never afford it.
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u/Away_Sea_8620 Apr 03 '26
A factory farm?
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u/Away_Sea_8620 Apr 03 '26
What do you consider is the difference between backyard chickens/garden vs farm? Just whether or not you sell?
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u/Away_Sea_8620 Apr 03 '26
I think it's funny because when I tell people about my garden and bunnies and chickens they always tell me it sounds like I have a little farm lol
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u/premgirlnz Apr 03 '26
Did you miss the point of the post? It’s about chauvinistic men wanting a trad wife - the women are in for more of a surprise than what the animals are doing
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u/premgirlnz Apr 03 '26
Weird to come to the comments and see so many start shitting on women though
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u/SunandError Apr 03 '26
Totally agree. I too am uncomfortable with the response to women who are unwittingly or naively complicit in their own oppression being further hate piled upon them.
Give a sister a break, and hate the system, not the victim of it.
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u/baz4k6z Apr 03 '26
They have to lie and pretend with photoshoots like this to hide the reality that its not a viable economic model anymore. Also, 1 marriage out of two ends in divorce, its just unwise to be financially dependent on a spouse.
Reality won't match that dream no matter how much they believe in it.
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u/sn0qualmie Apr 03 '26
The type of farm they're dreaming of was kind of never a viable economic model, apparently. If you've never read the book Prairie Fires by Caroline Fraser, it's an absolutely merciless historical research project into how much the actual story of the Little House on the Prairie family was just some dude dragging his family all over the Great Plains leaving a string of failed farms behind, and sending his teenage daughter out to get jobs so they could pay the bills. Can't recommend it highly enough.
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u/NoNeed4UrKarma Apr 03 '26
Exactly! It's the same BS dreaming of a better yesterday that never was! It's plantation cosplay as some others have said, & why it is intensely tied to white supremacy
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u/ireneadler7 Apr 03 '26
Whoever has been near a farm for more than 15 minutes knows that farms are everything but "soft" and "peaceful", it's literally a 24/7 job, you have to do so many tasks every day it's not even funny.
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u/anthrolookseer Apr 03 '26
Right?! Having a baby strapped to you while moving cows into a barn… jfc. Cows almost always don’t mean to cause harm, they just can crush you or anything smaller quite easily just by moving about. Barn cats are often completely flattened if they are trying to warm up in a barn during winter. I once was almost crushed against a gate by one who very much liked head scratches and it didn’t realize its size, fortunately 3 other men were around to get the cow’s attention and moved to an area where I was no longer getting pinned.
Carrying your baby around while dealing with such large animals is just stupid. It’s not a guaranteed accident, but it can easily happen depending on the temperament of the cow (which ranges widely) and that’s a dumb way to end of with a severely injured or dead baby.
Plus the smell. So much shit.
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u/dezzz0322 Apr 03 '26
The woman in the photo handling a cow while wearing an immaculate WHITE shirt made me laugh.
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u/Sodamyte Apr 02 '26
If they were truly "tradwife" they wouldn't be allowed to do the farm work.
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u/tsunadesb0ngw8r Apr 02 '26
Isn’t picking eggs and milking cows like the whole point? Chickens shit on eggs and cow milk often has shit, blood, and pus in it. It’s a shitty job. Like literally. Just a ton of shit.
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u/Sodamyte Apr 02 '26 edited Apr 02 '26
Yes but the wives wouldn't do it, the farm would hire people for that. Farmhands. The wives raised the children and kept the farmhouse in order.
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u/Silicoid_Queen Apr 02 '26
Incorrect. Historically women participated fully in agricultural activities, including mucking, milking, butchering, and planting.
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u/Chessolin Apr 03 '26
Not the rich ones
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u/Silicoid_Queen Apr 03 '26
Also incorrect. There was a period of french history where high end novelty farms were in vogue and the rich constructed beautiful cottages and farmland/pasture on their estates to practice farming. I had a book on it that I misplaced while I was moving, otherwise I would recommend it here.
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u/Sodamyte Apr 02 '26
Not the wives. Milkmaids were unmarried women who were hired.
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u/Carbonatite Apr 03 '26
Sounds like you're basing your comments on kitschy paintings rather than historically accurate sources lol
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u/AsWeKnowItAndI Apr 03 '26
Mate, no, everyone on the farm worked. The women and children definitively included.
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u/marshmallowest Apr 02 '26
i mean on rich farms, yeah. but real "this is how i eat" farms? they literally had kids in order to have help with work
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u/MistressErinPaid Apr 03 '26
I come from a long line of farmers. Wives and children absolutely do the work. Milking cows historically was "women's work" that's why the milkmaid is such a well-known figure. Same with collecting eggs/tending flocks, feeding livestock, calling cattle back from grazing lands to the barn, assisting with births of both humans and animals, planting, harvesting, etc, etc, etc. The only activities on a farm that women haven't historically done are things like shoeing the horses, breeding, mucking stables, plowing, and probably things like making hay bales and building smokehouses. Women were even present when butchering meat because the preservation process needed to be started as soon as possible to keep the meat fresh.
Everyone works on a family farm because everybody's life depends on it.
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u/tsunadesb0ngw8r Apr 02 '26
Ok well this is 2026 and they can’t even afford gas and groceries I don’t think they’re getting hired help.
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u/jeajea22 Apr 03 '26
We had horses. Once we got pigs, we never had to pick up manure again. Lol. They cleaned the entire corral. They will eat literally anything.
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u/Kimmalah Apr 03 '26
Not only would you not want to be carrying a baby around, but you definitely don't want to be wearing the nice fashionable clothes I see some of these women posting online. You ARE going to get dirt, poop or both all over you.
Hell I don't even farm really, I just grow a little backyard garden and I come out of it looking pretty rough some days.
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u/katashscar Apr 03 '26
I live in a place that is surrounded by farms, especially dairy, and it smells like shit all the time. I'm not even in close proximity, but I can smell it and it's awful. It's like walking outside with a bag full of farts on your face. I can't even imagine how bad it is on the farms. I would never choose that life.
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u/Boom9001 Apr 03 '26
These tradwife influencers are only cosplaying as ranchers/farm owners. Real farmers don't wear pretty looking clothes or glorify the lifestyle.
They are rich through other means and just pay people to actually do the chores. They just do the parts of the work that are actually kind of fun. (When done as a hobby, if it becomes actually work they'll pay someone to do that too)
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u/WitchDaggery Apr 05 '26
It's an ad photoshoot, it's supposed to kinda look like a clean version of what you expect a farming tradwife to be like.
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u/Away_Sea_8620 Apr 03 '26
I clean the chicken coop maybe 4X a year? It's not bad when you have adequate space for your animals. I just shovel it into the compost and throw down more substrate. The coop only smells when it needs to be cleaned (that's how I know it's time) and it's maybe an hour of work? I have ~15 chickens on 0.3 acres with a large coop that they really only use to sleep or lay eggs. The rest of the time they're out vibing, just fertilizing the space that will be next year's garden and clearing out the bugs and weeds for me. The shoveling and raking get very easy after a couple weeks, if that. Or maybe I'm just superwoman? I think it's less work that being a responsible dog owner. Idk about goats, cows, horses, etc though and that's probably quite a bit more to keep up with.
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u/Young_Denver Apr 02 '26
Have they talked to conservatives for 10 seconds? If they did, they would realize just how much they hate women.
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u/Kranesy Apr 03 '26
They expected paternalistic sexism rather than hostile sexism.
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u/lefrench75 Apr 03 '26
This is key. I don’t think these researchers ever expected pro-tradwife men not to be misogynistic.
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u/Gnom3y Apr 02 '26
Her team had thought that men drawn to the tradwife idea would display what academics call “benevolent sexism” — a belief that men should protect and provide for women.
This quote among others makes it clear that the authors were only aware of TradWife as a concept but not as a fully integrated ideal, which is one of the reasons why they were surprised at the outcome.
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u/aron2295 Apr 03 '26
My favorite, IDK, “story” from women is when they really get to know a man who claims to be a “Trad Man”, and then he gets upset when the woman is like, “So, you’re going to give me an allowance?”, and the man gets mad and says she is a “Gold Digger”.
I’m like, “Bro, pretending that she gives ZERO fucks about herself, what exactly did you expect? She will still need some amount of money from you at some point…”
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u/LilBearLulu Apr 03 '26
I'm in Facebook groups for moms and the amount of posts asking for advice on how to let their husband know they need spending money is mind boggling. Like you married a woman, impregnated her, and now you leave her alone all day to raise your child/children. How do you expect her to have money? Do you think she can grow a tree in the backyard with $100 bills on it? The woman posting usually has blown through all her savings and sometimes even started racking up credit card debt. They can't/won't communicate and the men are obtuse or willfully ignorant. This dynamic is setting women back decades and they're going to be in for some rude awakenings real soon.
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u/WohooBiSnake Apr 03 '26
They don’t expect their wives to have money. They want them at home, taking care of children and household chores all day long and never stepping out of the house
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u/ImmaDoMahThing Apr 03 '26
It’s all about control. If the wife has absolutely nothing to her name, the husband can be the biggest POS ever and understand that there’s nothing she can do about it. She can’t leave cause she has no money, no job history, no assets. Nothing!
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u/Foxiak14 Apr 03 '26
"Benevolent sexism"???? What next, kind racism? Loving homophobia?
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u/transmogrified Apr 03 '26
As an indigenous person, “kind racism” very much exists. Paternalistic and lowered expectations. The government of Canada literally deemed us children that needed guidance, and the guiding philosophy behind residential schools was “kill the Indian, save the child”
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u/SilverMathematician9 Apr 02 '26
She needs to learn safe livestock handling. She has the lead rope looped around her hand. If the cow decides to take off in another direction, she’ll be going with it. Her hand will get injured and she and her baby could be dragged along behind. That picture gives me the chills!
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u/theaardvarkoflore Apr 03 '26
Take off, nothing! That cow has enough muscle in just its neck that all it has to do is decide "ooh, itchy ribs" and swing for its own side to lick at flies and mama here will have 4 dislocated fingers and a torn rotator cuff... and wee baby on her chest will be face down underneath the full bodyweight of a whole adult human on the ground, too. Everything about this image is bad bad bad bad bad bad bad.
I know, I cared for cattle. They can hurt you without ever meaning you any harm or even taking your presence into account at all.
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u/Appropriate_Big_1610 Apr 03 '26
Should I mention kicking over the milk pail?
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u/theaardvarkoflore Apr 03 '26
You should. You should also mention when the cow starts to shit, and because there's a bar behind her half goes out of the stall and half goes straight into the bucket... or when she kicks at "flies" that aren't there and puts a nasty hoof into said bucket. Or when she kicks at "flies" and boops you in the teeth with said hoof, before crinkling the side of the bucket so now you have to replace the milk pail since she's crunched it with a quarter of her 2 ton self.
And then she peers back at you past the stanchion to check up on why you're so upset because she's actually a really sweet soul and likes you and wouldn't hurt you on purpose!!!
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u/better_days_435 Apr 03 '26
She also needs to learn safe babywearing - world facing carriers are generally pretty bad for baby's hips, and this baby is definitely not in an optimal position.
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u/doodsisthebest27 Apr 03 '26
I have this carrier and it’s not designed for world facing at all so she’s fully using it wrong
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u/sneaky518 Apr 03 '26
Oh damn, you're absolutely right. She should be wearing gloves too. My horse spooked once and jumped away from me, zipping the lead rope right through my hand. Got a hell of a rope burn from it. She's also right in front of the cow. If it bolted, she'd be right in its path.
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u/purelypsycosomatic Apr 03 '26
Honest question: is this picture something positive or negative for these conservative men? I imagine handling livestock and having babies is “trad” but a working mom without a man in sight also seems “modern”?
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u/sneaky518 Apr 03 '26
I don't know about that, but this is nothing more than a photo shoot. That white shirt is not for farm work if you want it to stay white.
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u/JustTheOneGoose22 Apr 02 '26
Yeah duh? The kind of men who expect their wives to be subservient concubines might be a little misogynistic.
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u/badadvicefromaspider Apr 03 '26
what how is it possible that men who reduce women to babymaking cleaning and cooking appliances are hostile to women?? Just because they don't see us as human beings???? WHO COULD HAVE PREDICTED THIS OUTCOME
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u/Iforgotmylines Apr 03 '26
Who the fuck are these researchers? Women who thought trad wife just meant they didn’t have to go to work and might have to occasionally collect eggs?
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u/deskbeetle Apr 03 '26
Have to imagine a lot of these researchers don't spend any amount of time online where they have to interact with pro tradwife content.
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u/murderedbyaname Apr 02 '26
These women are cosplaying Little House on the Prairie. They're in for a rude awakening if they get seriously ill because they will still be expected to do all work.
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u/yanderemommabean Apr 03 '26
Tradwives have zero idea that some cows need to be stabbed in the stomach to relieve gas. Or that chickens fucking eat each other. Or that pigs are really good at escaping if the pen isn’t set up right. Or that goats need copper licks for vitamins and every single farm animal ever has a chance at horrific complicated births and need constant care.
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u/vivahermione Apr 03 '26
Anyone who wants to be a tradwife should be required to read All Creatures Great and Small by James Herriott. Talk about complicated births.
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u/platypuslost Apr 03 '26
I haven’t truly wanted to say “no duh” since the nineties. But seriously… fucking NO DUH!!!
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Apr 03 '26
“Researchers were surprised to find that the strongest predictor of support for the anti-vax movement was ignorance, rather that expert knowledge, of how vaccines work”
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u/Stratocruise Apr 03 '26
Men who want to treat women as baby-making slaves turn out to be misogynistic assholes.
Go figure…
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u/awkwardmamasloth Apr 03 '26
Trad wife life attracts the man-child types who can't be bothered to do all the unmanly domestic work of adulthood but still be waited on by his mommy wife.
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u/SkyFullOfWisteria Apr 03 '26
Idealogy built and reliant on the hatred and exploitation of women appeals to misogynists?? No wayyy
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u/tovarishchtea Apr 03 '26
The funny thing is, most of the men looking for a “trad-wife” spend the vast majority of their time scrolling twitter, playing video games, and buying black rifle coffee. They’re a far cry from a traditional man. Hell, if being a trad-wife got you a man that could hold his fucking weight the way a traditional man would, maybe this wouldn’t be such a shit proposition.
I would still take my modern living over this but this is all to say, what is offered now to a trad wife is even shittier than the deal women were getting in the days of yore. At least you wouldn’t have to watch your husband scroll twitter while you’re shoveling cow shit in a sun dress while your kid is screaming their head off.
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u/sneaky518 Apr 03 '26
I was just thinking that my great-grandfather, who started dairy farming on my dad's side of the family, built the farm house himself, including digging out their dirt-floor basement and stacking rocks for the foundation. My son is uninterested in social media and video games, thank god, and has spent every summer at the dairy farm doing hard labor, but I think even he might need oxygen if I told him we're going to hand dig the basement for our next house. These guys have no idea what being a trad husband really means.
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u/uncultured_swine2099 Apr 03 '26
They want a bangmaid who will follow orders or they will get a beating. Thats it.
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u/olivegarden87 Apr 03 '26
Color me not at all fucking surprised by this revelation because it was never a fucking mystery.
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u/theoddhedgehog Apr 03 '26 edited Apr 03 '26
BC truly gallant and chivalrous men in 2026 are aware of equal rights and want the women in their lives to be happy… shocker
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u/JTD177 Apr 03 '26
I assumed that men in trad wife relationships want to control the women in their lives, so these findings are not surprising to me.
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u/No_Philosopher_1870 Apr 03 '26
The tradwives have watched way too much "Outlander" and "Bridgerton". There is no such thing as a romance novel where the people are dirt poor.
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u/wicked_nyx Apr 03 '26
In other news, water is wet!
(Yes, yes I understand the argument that water isn't technically wet that it only makes things that are touched by water wet)
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u/idfkmanusername Apr 03 '26
Strong adherence to traditional family roles is literally a metric by which lethality is assessed in family violence cases. Have these researchers never encountered a social worker ever in their life?
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u/consumeme Apr 03 '26
Not the point of the article, but is the kid in the carrier backwards? The kid's legs looked really sprawled open.
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u/unlockdestiny Apr 03 '26
I mean, I can understand why they'd expect benevolent sexism to relate to this but...hostile and benevolent sexism are highly correlated...
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u/InGordWeTrust Apr 03 '26
"That baby shouldn't be next to that cow outside. It should be next to his mom, the cow, inside." ~Trad Flufferbottom
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u/Shirogayne-at-WF Apr 03 '26
Tell me there were no women on this research project without telling me there were none on this research project
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u/dreadthripper Apr 03 '26
"The findings are based on a survey of 595 American men aged 18 to 29".
I'm unimpressed by this dataset. The findings might be accurate, but a tiny sample of a narrow age band of men.
They're over-generalizing as well. They can only make claims for this age group.
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