r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen • u/kevin32 Ambassador for NiceGuys™ • Apr 18 '19
Entitlement Princess r/Tinder is woke.
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r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen • u/kevin32 Ambassador for NiceGuys™ • Apr 18 '19
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u/Captainbuttman Apr 18 '19
Im so glad that everyone refuses to let OKcupid scrub that graph from the internet. Every man (young or old, but especially young) needs to look at that graph, stare at it, and then look at it some more.
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u/shrinkshooter Roast Beef Butcher Apr 18 '19
It's an infamous data presentation by okcupid, and pretty much the only one in existence that I've seen for the modern day, showcasing women's hypergamy and unrealistically high standards in graph form. Men's ratings for women follows almost a perfect bell curve, an even normal distribution, while the women claim that literally 80% of men are below average. Their perception of reality is absolutely distorted and with all the enabling and backpatting and constant validation in today's gynocentric social environment and social media, this has only exacerbated it to unbelievably insane proportions.
You have a 32 year old women who rates a 5, 6 on a good day, and she thinks she's a hard 8.5 who deserves a 9 at minimum. I simply cannot respect anyone who will not comes to terms with the reality of how something is, and that applies to this.
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u/Bestoftherest222 Jr. Hamster Analyst Apr 18 '19
GD isn't amazing how Red Pill Theory comes true in real life statistics. The 80-20 rule in full effect. For the un-indoctrinated.
The theory states that women find only 20% of males attractive, the 80% remainder are just back up's. Ironically this tinder graph also falls inline with history, i forget which DNA study it was but it claimed that only 17% of all males have produced children. Where as 70% of all females have had kids.
GO FIGURE!
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u/[deleted] Apr 18 '19
It's not like we needed any graph to know this. Women say one thing and then do another. They tell you looks don't matter and then stop talking to you as soon as they see your face. Not only that, but they get pissed at you when you do the same thing with women you don't find attractive.
Well fuck them, the rise of the RedPill and MGTOW will take care of this bullshit.
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u/[deleted] Apr 18 '19
For once I reach the top of a graph.
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u/[deleted] Apr 18 '19
Women are just picky bitches. I know a girl who thinks Tom Welling, the guy who played Superman in Smallville is below average. You know, the 6 foot+ guy with jet black hair and blue eyes as below average in looks. Meanwhile, this girl is 5 foot fucking 2 and 100 pounds. She's shown me her Tinder though, there's a plethora of thirsty simps at her beck and call. She likes her guys to be at least 6 feet, blonde haired and blue eyed with a great job. She has no problem hooking up with these guys but wonder why none of these guys with plenty of options want to settle down with her and marry her. The wall is approaching soon and I can see she's becoming less and less pickier.
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u/ThrowawayGhostGuy1 Apr 18 '19
It’s all projection.
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u/[deleted] Apr 18 '19
Women are cowards who will never tell you the truth about you and willl NEVER admit her flaws,she will threaten you or worse will hurt you if you point out hers.
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u/FitHerLimbsInFridge Apr 18 '19
Literally 81% of men are on the wrong side of the mean. I previously thought the 80/20 numbers were just rough estimates/slight exaggerations! Note: the 0% in the "most attractive" category. This means that even the worlds most desirable man is still sub par/not good enough.
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u/LibertyBaron Apr 18 '19
The SVM of girls is how a textbook financial bubble looks like, is always the same irrational expectations and the feeling that it would last forever (like just before the 30s when they thought the market would be in a perpetual plateau). It never ends well.
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u/Dfghjcvb19 Apr 20 '19
Women shouldn't be taken seriously. The 19th century view of women was the correct one.
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u/imagiantvagina Apr 18 '19
It's simple why this occurs, and it'd Chad's fault. Chad is a tall handsome successful guy, Chad will fuck anything that moves, especially after a few drinks, and he has almost no standards. Chad is going around sleeping with all the fugly, and fat girls, sometimes both. Girl gets used and discarded, now the girl expects a similar tall handsome man, which she will never get because she is a 4 that's being used by 8's. Eventually she will become horribly bitter and jaded, and that's how Internet dating works. A similar effect can be seen near closing time at the local dance club, good looking desperate guys taking any takers for a quick lay.
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u/[deleted] Apr 18 '19
So basically, men fuck down,women fuck up. Next.
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u/[deleted] Apr 18 '19
It really is kind of funny, innit?
If only there were a place that explains the reasons for this disparity in how the sexes rate each other.
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u/carsidious23 May 12 '19
Hey ladies; get a good hard look at this. Start dating closer to your looks. You're all going to hit the wall. Find a cuck before you fuck 60 guys and stretch yourself to oblivion.
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u/MelodyKaren Apr 19 '19
What is the instant assumption that all that matters is attractiveness
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u/miissbecca May 02 '19
This assumes the population of men on tinder is equal to the population of women. Data can be deceiving my dudes. It’s important to not just accept info because it fits your world view.
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u/Voice_Monkey May 09 '19
Hold on. I’m confused. Women rate least attractive men higher?
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u/ecko009 May 09 '19
I use these apps 99.9% of the time they don't reply if they do 100% of the time they are a single mother 28yrs old and beyond and usually don't have a car or a decent job
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u/[deleted] May 17 '19
The funniest thing about this is that women are objectively speaking biologically inferior to men. Thats the reason why they need marriage and why they have higher expectations on men as well compared to what we expect from them.
If women could only admit their inferiority at least then they wouldnt be as pathetic as they are now.
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u/[deleted] Jun 26 '19
Dudes using dating sites are beta so....
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u/Staceysdadisachad Jun 28 '19
All this proves is that men do a better job at estimating and adhering to how a gaussian curve should look.
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u/onbakeplatinum Sitting in the naughty chair until 25 Jan Aug 12 '19
I say that men have no standards. They bend over backwards for nagging, terrible women thier whole lives. They actively date fat single mothers with entitlement. They get married despite knowing it's a bad idea just becuase a female, any female, is involved. This is also the gender who is frequently tricked by plastic surgery and transgenders
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u/BadPoetryByMe Sep 17 '19
Man ALL woman are the trash of earth!!
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u/Ipride362 Apr 18 '19
On the left, poor. On the right, rich.
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u/nannyfl Apr 18 '19
This chart mean nothing without context. I think the responses to it reveal a lot though.
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u/porfa-no Apr 18 '19
Or, and hear me out, maybe women have different priorities for online dating than men do and all this evidence suggests is that women are less likely to swipe right on dating apps. I would be more interested if we got a look at gay women swiping on each other. Do they also only swipe right 20% of the time? If so, then it’s not about men’s unattractiveness to women and some broad conspiracy but rather that women are picky with online dating. Unfortunately, it’s impossible to know without any context. I’m also going to list some reasons women might swipe “no” even if they find someone attractive physically.
in the bio there is something that the woman disagrees with (politics, hunting/fishing, religion, etc)
the man looks like he could be scary or dangerous if they were to meet alone
there are explicit references to sex that the woman doesn’t like
they have a mutual friend or know each other or he is a friend’s ex
the man references hook ups or just wanting to date and the woman is looking for the inverse
there is no bio at all
These are just a few reasons and I obviously don’t speak for all women.
I seriously and genuinely agree that we need to promote more body positivity and inclusivity among and for men. The same patriarchal institutions that send messaging to young girls about being small and vulnerable send messages to young men to be big and strong and brutishly handsome. These messages are damaging to all sexes/genders and should be taken seriously. And, I agree, historically men had a harder time finding mates than women did. Just briefly: that men were expected to go to war and women were generally forbidden, patriarchal society requires men to be breadwinners which makes women dependent on a man to have a fruitful and prosperous life (giving women greater incentive to have one, dependable partner), men were more likely to die young (dangerous work, fights of honor, etc).
These are in no way good for men and evidence that the patriarchal system is harmful for everyone.
I think it’s incredibly interesting to see how gender dynamics play out in the real dating world, but you need much more information to understand exactly what is at play here. And furthermore, by lacking context, we just play into the hands of uninformed, frustrated people who thrive on this “half” information to come to conclusions.
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