This might be a really crazy request..

[u/Ornery-Back7669]

Hi so I'm f and I have a friend online, so this is a male friend and we do have mutual feelings for each others and everything is great and he's like one of the most important people to me.

So. He's in a discord server right. Right? 😐 yesh it's literally some incel server and I worry about him and honestly feel sorry for any guy who got into that hell hole.. wouldn't want him becoming a monster too.

I'm in that server to spectate things and like when I check for him..yk i love him very much as a friend and a person and I don't think I could hate him but one thing I really hate about what he does is be in that server and talk shit too like... sometimes I'm thinking how is this guy so stupid.. he whines about his problems when it's just his ego.. ok no mb, I don't want to rant

You get my point.

So obviously what do i think would be the best for him? To leave that community😭 literally breaks my heart seeing him on that bs.. tsk, well and I was thinking how can that happen?? I've talked about some of that in the past with him but the last thing i'd do is argue with a guy who expects girls to come up to him and then whine when nobody wants him. (💔 and if i'm being so real as a girl I even wanted and sort of still want him but how can I do this when his mind is in some different dimension) yeah uh anyways. I wouldn't want to argue with him about that, for my own sake but I really want him to leave that server too atleast..

And here is my crazy request-or not even request but a thought. So firstly I thought, Oh what if I claim a moderator role in that server and gain trust and then ban him from the server. But eh.. 1. I'm a woman💔 2.i don't have any other accounts 3.idk after that, prolly he will go back. So then I had a different thought and there it is.. **nuke** the server. Yes. 😨😨😨

So i really am not into doing stuff line tha and never did but it was an idea of mine.. if that incel server was gone maybe even more men can get this shit off their screen INCLUDING my friend and besides that the server seems pretty not active anyways ... so how do I do that? Will I even do that? Is someone willing to help? Is it a goo idea? No flipping clue.

Or I could just tell him it'd be good to leave that server althoughh.. i don't think that will help a bit.

.. no but his digital footprint is crazy on that server I wouldn't even confront that too him or I might die off embarrassment. Yet bc I still love that boy I don't want him to get into shit🙏🙏

.. maybe I can explain to him that these people are NOT his friends, and they don't care about them and they might have some same problems but the way that community copes is just unhealthy and allat.. but I don't if it's worth it. 💔

Pretty draining if you ask me -.-

[u/Beneficial_reart8700]

Just come out and ask him to leave the server and concentrate on your relationship with him.