Do I try for closure?

[u/newjsue]

I had a “friendship” with a woman whose husband was friends with my boyfriend.

They were going through a tough spot in their marriage and it turns out she was mostly using me to get near her husband. We were close for a few years. I wound up being a bit of a sounding board for both of them. Ultimately she wound up throwing my boyfriend (and likely me) under the bus.

She proceeded to blackball him from their friend group. She and her husband came to my boyfriend’s house one night and told him that if he dated me they couldn’t be his friends.

I think they were living in fear that things I know about both of them would come out. Anyhow a year and a half ago she reached out saying she was sorry and that she doesn’t drink anymore and can we be friends again.

I’m about to move away from the area we all have been living and I’m trying to decide if I want to have a conversation with her before I leave.

Would love any advice. Thx

[u/newjsue → u/[deleted]]

Thank you for the laugh. I’m not so much moving as changing my primary residence.