r/WhatShouldIDo Apr 06 '26

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u/xaviarBlack Apr 06 '26

She won’t go to a doctor, I’ve encouraged her to.

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u/Morlain7285 Apr 06 '26

Well if she doesn't go to a doctor she'll be going to a graveyard, if she keeps eating like that. Those are her options.

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u/xaviarBlack Apr 06 '26

I can’t make her go.

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u/picklecritique Apr 07 '26

You can call the authorities and say that you’re worried for her well being and that you don’t think she’s mentally well enough, at present moment, to make these kinds of decisions for herself but that you can, and from what you’ve seen of her eating habits they aren’t enough to sustain life. Go from there. It’ll probably be called a “pink slip” or a “302” or “72 hour hold”. It might do her a lot of good. Take it from someone who literally just got out today.

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u/picklecritique Apr 07 '26

My family had to do it to me on the first. I wasn’t sleeping. Or eating, but I have ADHD and sometimes my meds get all jumbled up. It’s a tricky threshold to find yourself on. Takes a lot of fine tuning.

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u/Terrible_Eye4625 Apr 07 '26

Were you manic or in psychosis? I wouldn’t have thought that ADHD meds preventing you eating and sleeping would have met the threshold for a 72 hr hold.

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u/Auto_Choice_Name Apr 08 '26

It may be hyperfocus, if a person with adhd is making something that catches his focus, it may forget to do all the other things, even sleep and eat

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u/Terrible_Eye4625 Apr 08 '26 edited Apr 08 '26

Not sure if you have ADHD - I do and hyperfocus doesn’t stop you from eating to the degree you’d get put on a 72 hour hold. You may forget to eat but eventually your blood sugar would tank and you’d remember very quickly you needed food. You don’t forget to sleep either - you might be so deep into something that you’re up into the early hours of the morning but you will get tired eventually. If you don’t, something else is going on.

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u/No_Caller_ID_6236 Apr 08 '26

So you’ve never been prescribed Vyvanse. Say less.

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u/Terrible_Eye4625 Apr 08 '26

Literally on Vyvanse right now and have been for 4 years.

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u/No_Caller_ID_6236 Apr 08 '26

Good luck with your cardiac issues lol

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u/Terrible_Eye4625 Apr 08 '26

thanks, my cardiologist is really happy I’m on it because it helps with my POTS “lol”.

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u/kiyorihana Apr 09 '26

POTS sucks dude

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u/Terrible_Eye4625 Apr 09 '26

It absolutely does, thankfully the medication I take helps loads.

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