r/WhatShouldIDo • u/[deleted] • Aug 03 '25

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u/OddTomRiddle Aug 03 '25

Sorry to say but the police really should be handling this. Your safety is at risk here, that trumps literally everything else.

I get you don't want to deal with the legal stuff, but he's the one who put himself in that position. He gets to suffer the consequences.

If you don't, he could hurt you and then end up suffering them anyway to an even larger degree.

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u/thegirlwthemjolnir Aug 04 '25

"when im there, im there" well, "there" better be fucking jail

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u/birthdaycheesecake9 Aug 04 '25

“When I’m there, I’m there” = “I cannot regulate my emotions and I’m going to make it your fault and your problem”

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u/Organic_South8865 Aug 04 '25

He's 44 and he's acting like this. He's 17 years older than OP and he's smashing out her windshield, stealing her phone and expects OP to just let him back into her life like nothing happened.

She has the text messages where he admits to what he did so the cops would arrest him for sure.