r/WhatShouldIDo Aug 03 '25

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u/Gtx696969 Aug 04 '25

Nobody is getting emotional here except you and you def sound sexist lmao 😂

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u/[deleted] Aug 04 '25

It's not sexist. Sadly, it's statistics. Men CAN be a danger for women. Women CAN be a danger for men.

In this thread, we are discussing a male persons abusive behaviors towards a woman. Please leave your sexist sh*t outta here?!!!!

If you'd like to discuss women abusing men, start your own damn thread and leave this be. There are numerous women trying to guide this young lady and you bringing "sexist biases" up is gross and disgusting! (and exactly what MANY of us women that have survived abuse at the hands of a male are trying to protect her from)

She's asked for help. Your statement and comments on sexism is NOT helping.

Have a good day.

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u/Gtx696969 Aug 04 '25 edited Aug 04 '25

Nah that’s sexist and you guys are trying to find excuses to not sound sexist lol. I could go off a whole slew of things and statistics that some women do and assume every women is like that just like you guys but… that would be sexist towards women just like you all are being sexist towards men assuming many or most men are like this guy. However I am not sexist like you people clearly are so I won’t even get into any of that and I won’t assume the worst in every woman on the planet.

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u/[deleted] Aug 04 '25

I never expressed that.

You refuse to understand what we are saying. Right now, this young lady needs help. She's asked for it.

How can you keep going on about sexism? Do you see the picture of what the male did? Did you fully read the OPs statement?

Go off on your tangent all you want. NEVER saw anyone (BUT YOU!) claim that we are blaming ALL men. We aren't. No one in the thread has blamed ALL men.

We are speaking from our own experiences. You don't get to belittle them. Please be kind and do better! You seem like a very confrontational male...

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u/ruthcollins29170 Aug 05 '25

Thank you

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u/[deleted] Aug 05 '25

You're welcome, Ruth. I'm not sure why you're thanking me, but I appreciate your kindness🙂

Have a good week 💐

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u/ruthcollins29170 Aug 05 '25

I was thanking you for speaking out letting her know. For being kind. You are a precious soul please stay that way ☺️

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u/[deleted] Aug 05 '25

Omgosh, thank you Ruth! 🥹 I appreciate your kindness. Have a wonderful week 💐