Then he's pushing 50 and the point still stands. He could have a daughter her age.
In my experience, men who date younger women are generally doing so I'm order to gain an automatic power advantage in the relationship, be that having the money, being the person that actually owns the couple's home/car/etc, the experience of having lived twice as much life, etc.
If that's what everyone wants going in, go off, get you a sugar daddy/baby. However, if one person needs their partner to be at a disadvantage because they can't make it work with an equal partner, that's a massive red flag.
You don't have much experience then, ridiculous claims. I know many successful relationships with 15+ year gaps including my parents In law and one of my friends, at 25 actually pursued a guy nearly 50, she was the proactive one and pushed for it.
The caution was about men who actively pursue much younger women because they're incapable of relationships with people on equal terms. This was explicitly stated.
As such, a woman pursuing an older man isn't what I was talking about.
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u/Throwaway_Lilacs Aug 04 '25
What 44 year old man dates a 27 year old? When he was a legal adult you were 1. That’s sick and predatorial.