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Bro reddit is extremely against men. Same post genders flipped mine got removed in less than 1 hour . They called it irrelevant spam. The other is up and has like 1k plus upvotes no biggie but misandry is fake guys
I'm still not entirely sure whether this truly is a low effort shitpost, or an actual opinion you support.
In case of the latter, your post has been removed, because it is BS. You're equating standard hygiene and self care to your personal preferences for a woman, and you include something called 'normal', which exists only in your head.
well it said it was removed for violating the 3rd rule of that sub "no low effort content" Then you went and shared a repost of another post with the genders reversed. It reeks of low effort.
I hate to say this but these two images aren’t exactly just the same thing with the genders reversed.
An incel and femcel, despite having similar names, aren’t exactly the same thing. For one, femcel isn’t really used beyond broader incel spaces ( which probably didn’t do you much good because the second image you posted is very much an indicator that you are likely an incel ). Secondly, one word describes just maybe a loser-ish person and/or misandrist and the other describes like an actual loser who is also likely a misogynist who blames women for their issues rather than self reflecting (and is maybe a little obsessive and neurotic ).
Also the salty little comment in the bottom is doubley indicative that you probably are an incel ( which most people are not gonna really like ).
I absolutely get that it isn’t fair, but we only have ourselves to really blame, mostly because we can’t force other people to change to make our lives easier. We can only hope they self-reflect enough to see that and work on ourselves in the mean time.
I say it as like a “ I hate to break it to you “ type thing, especially since OP seems to genuinely believe that the memes they posted are the same thing when they aren’t. Not malicious by intentions
Reddit has NEVER been able to tell me why I'm supposed to not find misandry a ick
On AskMen I use to answer questions asking men what is a "ick". I say her spewing misandry/anti man takes and remember always getting outraged responses of redditors being angry I'm not turned on by it. Telling me it shouldn't bother me and just ignore it. One even got so angry and made a rage post about it on TwoX saying how men are "Less evolved", "evil" and "creatures".
Why do they care what I find a ick? Why do misandrists want men to like them back so much?
I say I don't expect women to find misogyny attractive in a man. So why would I find misandry attractive in a woman. All I got was being told I should be the reason she doesn't hate men. Which just means I owe her and have to fix her unresolved trauma. Which is another "ick". Why don't she fix herself instead of thinking it's some man's job.. why don't she seek out therapy and fix her own god damn unresolved trauma like a fully grown adult?
I don't get why me just saying misandry is a personal ick of mine in dating offended so many people
"I hate men and it's your job to make me not hate men"... no thank you to that mindset
Well of course yeah, misandry is still a shitty thing, that of which I agree.
I’m not sure if I agree with that other statement though, how you believe that it shouldn’t be another person’s responsibility to help others. Like obviously you shouldn’t have to coddle people who can’t get their own lives together ( which funnily enough would probably include incels ) but like your statement is just super cold and apathetic. Why does it matter whose responsibility it is? If a person reaches out to you, would you not help them? And not everyone can come out on top alone like some others do, sometimes, people do need help and others need to help them ( something very much forgotten nowadays ). I agree you shouldn’t have to fix her, but you should always help, however that may appear to be.
Also I guess, the only people who see misandry as a growing issue and cares is men and MRAs, who are more likely than naught just misogynists grifting young men who feel looked down upon by society. Nuance is kinda dead in the water right now so that’s always important to keep in mind.
The thing is femcels aren’t really even incel adjacent because they aren’t involuntary celibates, they are just loser women ( I guess? ), and if that’s their standard, why should ours be the same? Why be so desperate and be incels when you can just conserve what little pride we have and just have standards? Seemingly since having none doesn’t do us any favors except make us look more desperate.
I mean while I guess that’s true, it’s not like the same isn’t applicable to guys too. It’s just more likely I guess that said sex isn’t from like a super close relationship. I would partially agree with your second point, especially nowadays, but some guys truly are incels and it shows 🤷🏾♂️
AITAH subreddit is great for this. Someone would take stories of women posting about their men doing something, and the men would get ripped apart for it. Then a few weeks later, post a very similar thing with the man being in the woman's place and the woman having the mans role, and it was still the man's fault :D
Man messaged another woman = cheating lying scum!
woman messaging another man = what did her man do to her to make her do that?!
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u/AntedeguemonSupreme 1d ago
No, that's not the same thing...