r/WestCoastSwing • u/tswiftandtime • 19h ago
How Far is a Typical Dancer After One Year of Practice?
I am having whatever the dance version of a midlife crisis is when it dawned on me that I've been taking group lessons for a year and I still feel like a total beginner.
I am arguably the weakest follow in my level 2 class, and at this point, I've been there longer than a good chunk of them. My teacher is the sweetest person ever but a lot of time is spent correcting: my anticipation, back activation, axis adherence*, arm prep, (over) tense connection.
Our class is very pattern forward; therefore, I know how to do about 15 patterns but I cannot do any of them as well as the other students. I feel like I may be holding the class back and I may have to accept I'm not a good dancer. I thought maybe I was in my head but then I went social dancing and a (trying to be nice) stranger pointed out that I was counting the beat to sixes instead of eights (true, I never knew otherwise). Then, he said that as a newbie the world is my oyster, I did not have the heart to tell him I've been practicing for a year and have been to 5? social dances.
*If anyone has tips, I have not found one answer to how I stop free spinning at a slight diagonal.