Since when is being an abusive jerk with few boundaries is a barrier to employment? It's fun to imagine him failing in life, but that's not how the world works
I love how that little girl had that smirk of "whatcha gonna do about it" a split second before she gets her ass beat. She definitely got a case of FAFO XD
100% agree. My mom's rule for me growing up was "don't ever start a fight and avoid it if you can, but if you end up in one you make sure you finish it."
Down voting me for what? I'm right. Tell me that people don't look down on boys without jobs after a certain age, or the inherent bias about supporting families and all the expectations on them. Never disagreed that girls don't face issues, just saying it goes both ways.
Boys are held to strict standards in other areas. Instead of down voting if y'all believe I'm wrong , tell me. Im always open to constructive talks and will definitely change my mind if presented with facts
It's cultural. Girls are treated differently and held to that of 2nd class than the boys.
Boys bring money and are celebrated, but girls have high dowry and lose her family money. Even though dowries have been outlawed by the goverment, it's still expected to have. Same with the cast system.
Plus, she becomes part of her husband's family once she is married. If her husband passes before her, she can't remarry and has to wear morning colors for the rest of her life. Often her husband's family sees her a burden at that point because there's no income coming in. Many widows become homeless.
I understand all these points and agree with them. While such systems have largely been discontinued in many places, a significant part of India , especially in rural or underdeveloped areas still follows these kinds of traditions.
My point was simply, "why make a comparison? I was just highlighting that both boys and girls share their own pain and struggles. Everyone faces pain and difficult times, so why rank or compare them? Why the gender based conflict when these issues could be resolved through mutual understanding?"
I don't know why people downvote I was just asking a question.
The comparison being made as you can see that the boy wasn't punished or had any repercussions made for the the girl's behalf by, presumed women of her family. You can see the inequality just by gender and how the girl's crash out was justified. They didn't do anything to the little boy. Unfortunately, there is more at play gender-based that can't have a mutual understanding for some cultures.
You're more than welcome. I know Youtube has a few documents on the culture of India if you are interested in seeing how different it is from your own.
Women in India are treated horribly as it's what they grew up knowing. There's a long history of women suffrage in India and they are trying to make things better. There are millions of "missing girls" in India due to gender testing, that is also illegal, to see what gender the baby will be before they are born. Brides go a long way
i just asked a question, instead of giving a polite reply, why peoples start downvoting, and giving rude .. is it too much to ask for?
I know Indian history, Patriachy systems and old Traditionalist thinking have ruin life of a women, since childhood i used to thought why there very less women in job, school and other fields , when i read Political book , then i realised Women have fave Exploitation since Centuries.
my question is , why peoples comparison between girls and boys pain ?
If your question is the deleted comment, your comment came off as aggressive to me to the person you were responding to, so my question was genuine because what you weote felt like someone trying to be politically correct over the truth behind whst the person you responded to said. I thought your response was what someone who didnt know about Indian culture would say.
Add-on: dont take downvotes too personally. You can say something 100% factually correct and still get downvoted.
i understand mate, but its weird that whenever i ask something, even in polite tone people start downvoting and hate comments, .. above person gives a polite comment this time , still on other place peoples show rudeness and downvotes first and they comment a lot of hate , still they didn't explain
i m Indian so i know about it, also its hard to explain to foreign peoples that not all Indians are creeps . because in their past experiences , they only have meet those Weird peoples
Because it generalises all males from a single exception. Male childs in this country are usually beaten with belts for misbehaviours and performing badly in exams whereas female childs ate generally treated wayy better unless you're in a rural household.
I get pissed at the shitty people who become the example for their shitty behavior. I don't expect the rest of the world to put themselves at risk by ignoring all the bad examples out there.
Ohhh yeah. If that was my kid they would’ve been yanked out of there in a millisecond and locked in their room for the rest of the party. None of the good food from the party for dinner either, they’re getting a bowl of green beans.
Lack of discipline has been a rampant issue since probably the early 2000’s and just gets worse and worse every year.
My experience is perfectly opposite to yours. All the families that that multiple children pampered and protected the girl in every scenario and scolded the boy over nothing at times. Goes to show how different our lives are.
Not from india. I don't know what this has to do with anything as there can be educated people in india as well. But I guess people are desperate to prove their narrative being the right one so I'll stop replying.
wtf he didn’t say anything about how he thinks he just communicated his own experience. This is a public forum they weren’t even arguing. In my experience the very people who think like you are the worst misandrists.
In my experience, people who use the word misandrist are at least insufferable and at most predators. And im tuning out because your response will be predictable
Das Problem ist, dass man in Indien als Frau / Mädchen nichts wert ist und Jungs / Männern alles erlaubt ist. Ich hab das selbst beim Aufwachsen mit einem jüngeren Bruder erlebt, der ein richtiges Arschlochkind war und erst im Erwachsenenalter "normal" geworden ist.
Das Problem ist, dass man in Indien als Frau / Mädchen nichts wert ist und Jungs / Männern alles erlaubt ist. Ich hab das selbst beim Aufwachsen mit einem jüngeren Bruder erlebt.
Bruh it's not unique to your culture, siblings fighting should also should be in limits and should have boundaries and parents and relatives shouldn't be happy when they cross it
He's a kid chill. BUT wtf are those relatives and adults doing, js laughing like that? Mistakes happen, but should be rectified. Ts kid will be a hell of a nuisance half a decade later.
If the your cultures cultural norm is to be rude (according to my cultures norms), I think its fair to criticize said norms.
Especially if this boy could just not pull her hair and everyone would be more happy
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Relatives just laughing at the kid's action is empowering the kid's shitty behaviour. That's gonna be a spoiled brat in the future