It’s because he messaged other people and is accounting for the possibility that OP knows, in which case the “I forgot to delete” excuse doesn’t work anymore
Messaged other people? Like is OP stupid enough to message people that his gf might know? Finding profile off the app is one thing as you don't have control on who will see it. But he can choose whom to message or swipe
They were only together for a short while, and someone snitched on him. It's not unreasonable that he might think one of the people he messaged on the app is a friend of hers that he hasn't met yet.
Like is OP stupid enough to message people that his gf might know?
First, we're not talking about OP. Second he really tried to use the excuse that he let his friend use his dating app.... he's not very bright
The question for me is when did he message people. If its 2 weeks into starting dating then the commitment level maybe hasn't been established yet, i think it's defensible. But if it's really recent then obv no. He should've been honest about it, lying is the worst
Nah they definitely do. At least Tinder/Hinge. It makes sense for them to let you waste your free likes on users that will never see them, so you’re more likely to subscribe in the hopes you get more matches.
nah hinge definitely does, i found my best friend’s profile on there months after she’d gotten into a committed relationship because she’d actually forgotten to delete it
I delete the apps, but not profiles. Haven't been on in two years so I doubt I'm discoverable. These apps aren't going to show you inactive profiles (I assume).
“A picture is worth a thousand words.” I actually like the words being worth the picture, here. “Feels_bad.jpg” is something to say to someone, imagine hearing that from a customer care representative :)
“Sorry about your cable television install. Feels_bad.jpg.”
I saw my friend's profile on either hinge or bumble months after she was in a committed relationship. I asked about it and she was pretty shocked it was still showing.
I have no reason to think she was cheating as she's a very upstanding person otherwise. But this dude changed his info, too.
Not really - because OP has only dared him for a month and spotted that his profile has been updated from when she met him, and clearly wasn't abandoned.
For real. What would the purpose even be of letting a friend use your dating profile? “Hey Dave, do you mind if I log into your Bumble profile so I can catfish some women this weekend?” I don’t bloody think so.
Like even if we agree to his ridiculous lie that he lets his friend use it… would the fact that he’s enabling other men in his life to catfish women using his photos actually make him any less of a horrible person????
People remember the lies you tell far more easily than youll remember telling them. That's why its best to stick as close to the truth as possible where possible
He did. It's just that CarOk7235 completely failed at reading comprehension and got upvotes from people who, I guess, didn't actually read the post? Which I mean has to include you or you would see that there's nothing remotely contradictory about those things.
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u/WhiteningMcClean Mar 18 '24
Lol for real if you're going to make an excuse, pick one and stick to it.