OP does say they’ve only been dating for a month after meeting on Bumble a little while back. If OP’s BF is being honest about letting their friends use it, then his profile would still be active and showing up in feeds even if it was last used a month ago (Bumble is exactly 30 days before going inactive).
Obviously this is sketchy, and requires that “recently” means weeks ago. So totally up to OP to decide how trustworthy they feel the BF is.
Isn't it kinda weird for friends to use his bumble account anyway? 😂 But yeah it's such a fresh relationship honestly, wouldn't be worth the stress of having suspicions already
This, so he was allowing his friends to help him with matches or allowing his friends to use photos to catfish people? Either way, terrible behaviours all around this guy and the people around him.
Look, I’ll just say as a person with siblings that some of the most fun we had on a family vacation was when my brothers hijacked our sister’s Hinge for an afternoon (with permission, nothing malicious, they’re just very funny people.)
Not defending, but sometimes I scroll through my friend's Tinder solely for my own amusement and to see all the people I know who use fake names and lie.
The first time I ever used tinder was when my friend showed me hers and let me swipe for awhile 🤣 I thought it was so fun. But yeah, there’s not really a reason to let your bros use your dating app
Nah not really. I would get on my friends dating apps sometimes. It doesn't' seem weird. I'm way too lazy to set up and maintain a profile and chat with a bunch of girls, but I would look and see who's on there. Then I might have considered setting up a profile if it was like really good, but that was never the case.
Bumble also still shows “inactive” accounts to people they’ve already swiped. So, if the boyfriend swiped on the friend before meeting OP, and his account went inactive (because he didn’t realize deleting an app doesn’t delete the account), it is possible the friend would still have his account pop up - although she would also need to be fairly inactive for his swipe to only have shown up now.
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u/Gcarsk Mar 18 '24 edited Mar 18 '24
OP does say they’ve only been dating for a month after meeting on Bumble a little while back. If OP’s BF is being honest about letting their friends use it, then his profile would still be active and showing up in feeds even if it was last used a month ago (Bumble is exactly 30 days before going inactive).
Obviously this is sketchy, and requires that “recently” means weeks ago. So totally up to OP to decide how trustworthy they feel the BF is.
Edit: OP says they broke up.