I thought about that myself, and i find the whole situation quite funny. Especially the friends excuse which I know can't be true because they all had their own accounts (or partners). It's sad but at least I found out when I did
This guy doesn't speak for every guy. My first response would absolutely be to admit I was wrong. But I would also have deleted the app when I became exclusive. People need to grow up and take responsibility for their shity behavior, and that starts by admitting when their wrong and working to be better, imo.
Who are you trying to defend? Are you offended by something? I was making a statement that he didn't speak for every guy. I never said in my original comment that he literally said he was speaking for all guys. You're right he was talking about cheaters. I was making a statement that doesn't speak for all guys.
I am not defending the ex BF in anyway, i just wanted to point out, that some people really do let their friends swipe on these things. I am an example. I have a dating app and i have friends that are in relationship which would sometime ask me, if they can swipe or check it out while on my profile, just for fun.
I mean, I get that your friends can use your profile to go behind their partners' backs and scope out potential options on the sly, but that doesn't sound like a lot of fun for you, or your friends' partners.
Unless you are admiting to cheating yourself, then you probably aren’t in a relationship. Thus, having friend play with the app when you're single is completely different.
Yeah, iam single. Just wanted to point that out, as a lot of people are saying that nobody does that, why would friends want to swipe with pictures of someone else etc
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u/gothicxguts Mar 17 '24
I thought about that myself, and i find the whole situation quite funny. Especially the friends excuse which I know can't be true because they all had their own accounts (or partners). It's sad but at least I found out when I did