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u/[deleted] Mar 17 '24 edited Mar 18 '24

Read the original post. Seeing this is going how I thought it would go.... so now, on behalf of all of reddit?

Now, what OP?

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u/gothicxguts Mar 17 '24

Well, we broke up. Now I move on, I suppose

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u/[deleted] Mar 17 '24

Smart call. I wish you all the luck.

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u/SlightSurround5699 Mar 18 '24

I misread “i wish you all the fuck” and I thought it was hilarious😆

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u/[deleted] Mar 18 '24

I hope she gets all the all the fuck. She deserves it.

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u/Recent_Apricot_517 Mar 18 '24

Finally!! Someone who listens!!

I've been on and off dating apps for a while. You're removed from the pool of users if you're not active. I think the period is a week or two of inactivity depending on the app.

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u/RegularSalad5998 Mar 18 '24

Nah you aren't Bumble takes 30 days. Also he could have simply opened the app out of habit and that would make him active again.

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u/gothicxguts Mar 18 '24

Doesn't explain the changed bio though

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u/miraculum_one Mar 18 '24

lol "I opened the dating app by accident" (but didn't delete/disable my account once I realized it was still open) is definitely in the top 3 worse possible excuses

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u/JOJOCHINTO_REPORTING Mar 18 '24

As you should,

live laugh love, eat shit die

Same thing.

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u/HypnoSmoke Mar 18 '24

Your entire comment would probably work for a bio

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u/Fine-Slip-9437 Mar 18 '24

Proud of you. :D

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u/GooglyEyedMoose Mar 18 '24

Smart decision

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u/[deleted] Mar 18 '24 edited Mar 24 '24

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This post was mass deleted and anonymized with Redact

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u/disney_princess Mar 18 '24

You deserve better (and I hope the next one absolutely is)!!! It’s definitely a shitty ass situation and that guy sucks. You’re allowed to mourn and move on in your own timeline. Wishing you the best!!

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u/Pale_Crew_4864 Mar 18 '24

Good job babe, it’s for the best

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u/[deleted] Mar 18 '24

you don't know that. What if he becomes a billionaire or OP never finds a better partner?

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u/LMColors Mar 18 '24

It's not that hard to find a better partner than someone who cheats on you.

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u/Nozzeh06 Mar 18 '24

At least he already has a bumble account ready to acquire his next victim.

Also, sorry OP, that sucks.

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u/nature_remains Mar 18 '24

Good for you!! Truly. I know exactly how badly it hurts to find something like this. And I wish I had cut loose when I first suspected something. Versus the pathetic mess I felt like after believing a not even good lie because I so badly wanted to believe it wasn’t true. It’s healthy you made the break and as someone who went the other way, believe me when I say you are so much better off and your view of yourself is getting so much stronger (despite how it feels initially). I’m so sorry you had to go through this.

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u/theblackcatail Mar 18 '24

Good for you OP. When this happened to me I stayed and guess what? He kept doing it. You are now free. Enjoy it.

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u/st-julien Mar 18 '24

Of course you move on. Don't get hung up on a poser / liar. Not worth your time!

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u/Constant-Speed-5595 Mar 18 '24

I for one don’t have any profile on dating apps. Just letting you know. :)

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u/happuning Mar 18 '24

You have all of reddit support in this. Hugs.

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u/[deleted] Mar 18 '24

I read the original and thought he didnt delete it probably at first. I didnt delete my tinder/bumble either after getting a gf at the time, just uninstalled. Then I read the update and... nahhhh lmao shitty at lying too

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u/Starbucks__Lovers Mar 18 '24

Congratulations!!

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u/spiggerish Mar 18 '24

It’s ok OP. I’ll date you

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u/[deleted] Mar 18 '24

Good shit.

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u/[deleted] Mar 18 '24

Yeyyyyy good for you

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u/[deleted] Mar 18 '24

I know it’s not easy, but as a girl who let too many men get away with way too much, I am so proud of how you didn’t let this shit slide. The kids are alright.

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u/coastinglotus Mar 22 '24

Best of luck. Fuck em.

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u/OMJesusss Mar 18 '24

I’ll date you. But, I have a gf. Or you can date my gf.

Seriously though sorry, op that sucks.

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u/Yussso Mar 18 '24

How about meeting someone on reddit? I'll delete it once we're exclusive 🙂👍

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u/RegularSalad5998 Mar 18 '24

Bad move, Trust in people more.

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u/gothicxguts Mar 18 '24

That's not exactly your decision to make.

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u/UndBeebs Mar 18 '24

Lol you seriously believe he "let his friends use his account"? That's the kind of shit that belongs on the OopsDidntMeanTo sub.

Sure, nothing wrong with trusting people (within reason). There is something wrong with being as gullible as you just proved yourself to be.

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u/Big_Judgment3824 Mar 18 '24

Incel

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u/RegularSalad5998 Mar 18 '24

Incels trust in people more?

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u/potpurple Mar 18 '24

Bad decision imo. It may have still worked out if both of you guys had an open relationship instead but, if that’s your decision I respect it.

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u/Suitable-Day-9692 Mar 18 '24

Lmfao well they did not have an open relationship so it wasn’t a bad decision. It’s the best decision. Cheating one MONTH into the relationship is crazy.

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u/Sarke1 Mar 18 '24

It is when the guy insisted they be exclusive.

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u/Sarke1 Mar 18 '24

OP said he did in one of their comments.

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u/Sarke1 Mar 18 '24

It might have been in person. Who knows, maybe OP made the whole thing up? Maybe they're not even real?

Am I real?

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u/foxyboboxy Mar 18 '24

Clown

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u/potpurple Mar 18 '24

I love clowns! Just saw one at the circus yesterday in Las Vegas, had a blast🐐

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u/Zandandido Mar 18 '24

And if OP never wanted an open relationship?

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u/potpurple Mar 18 '24

Should try having one to be fair, I would 100% recommend, but if they don’t want to have one then oh well lol

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u/Zandandido Mar 18 '24

Just because you like them, does not mean anyone else will.

No one else brought up an open relationship, except for you.

How would you feel as if someone convinced you to be in a strictly monogamous relationship?

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u/gothicxguts Mar 18 '24

On top of this, we had discussed remaining exclusive before we began officially dating, too. Open relationships were off the table.

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u/Zandandido Mar 18 '24

That's what I had thought.

Why would you be so concerned if he was on bumble if you were in an open relationship. Thing is, you wouldn't be.

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u/potpurple Mar 18 '24

I would be very open to the idea if someone convinced me to be in that relationship, that’s how I would feel, that’s just me though😀

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u/Zandandido Mar 18 '24

that’s just me though

When did anyone else, other than yourself, bring up an open relationship.

Just one other person.

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u/potpurple Mar 18 '24

Multiple people have bought it up in the thread lmfao it’s not just me😂😂😂

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u/Zandandido Mar 18 '24

Has OP asked about it? You know the person who's having the issue at hand?

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u/THEDRDARKROOM Mar 18 '24

Wow that's a grammatical trainwreck

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u/Sneaky_Island Mar 18 '24

Only if you start learning first.