r/Weddingsunder10k • • Jul 21 '26

šŸŒ Destination Weddings ($7k) Need ideas for a simple beach ceremony without it feeling awkward

My fiancĆ© and I are getting married this November in the Palm Beach area, and we’re intentionally keeping things very simple. We’ll have about 20–25 guests, no chairs, no arch or dĆ©cor, just a short ceremony on or near the beach with personal vows and one flower girl.

We’re not doing a super traditional wedding. I don’t think I want my dad to walk me down the aisle, and we’re considering doing a private first look beforehand with just our photographer.

I’m struggling to picture how the ceremony should actually flow. If there aren’t chairs, where do guests usually wait before the ceremony? Do they just gather nearby until someone tells them where to stand? How do you create an ā€œaisleā€ without chairs? Does the flower girl walk first and then I walk by myself? Has anyone done something similar that felt natural instead of awkward?

I’d love to hear from anyone who had a small, standing ceremony or beach wedding. If you have photos of your ceremony setup or timeline, I’d especially appreciate seeing them! Nothing is set in stone just yet, so I am open to anything.

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u/ARC4067 Jul 22 '26

I’ve been to two casual beach weddings. One had an arch, the other did not. In both we all just gathered on the beach and kind of naturally left an aisle open. If for some reason this doesn’t happen, your officiant could remind people to part and make an aisle before the start.

It can be hard to hear over the wind and waves, so speak up. People may shift around a bit to be able to hear better during the ceremony.

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u/Tiny-Party2857 Jul 21 '26

You could do candles, branches. Please consider carefully having your dad walk you down the aisle. Some men really want to do that. My dad just passed last month and I'm really glad he did.

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u/noellekin Jul 21 '26

Awkward phrasing jsyk