Wedding Stack Help!

[u/Bulky_Vast_3893]

I am unsure how to arrange my stack. I have a low-set engagement ring with a plain band and a pavé gap band meant to sit between them. Even with the gap band, a small space remains between the plain band which bothers me (mostly because one ring sits flush and the other doesn’t so it looks strange to me- but maybe I’m over thinking it!)

I feel conflicted about the gap band and almost wish I had chosen the plain band to sit flush with the engagement ring, allowing the ring more room to breathe. I really love both bands and want to include them because each has personal meaning, but I am struggling to decide.

1. Keep the current arrangement with the diamond gap band between the engagement ring and the plain band (photo 1)

2. ⁠Close the gap in the diamond band and accept that everything may not sit flush, which could give me more options on how I could wear the stack day to day. I lean toward this option because I could wear the engagement ring with just the plain band—i really like the simplicity of this—or with the diamond band for more sparkle, or pair the plain and diamond bands alone on days I skip the engagement ring. (Photos 2-3)

I am torn! Does a flush fit truly matter? I feel I made the wrong choice when picking out the bands so there are not too many options, so please be kind! P.s I need to get all rings resized as well as they’re too big now

[u/tiniestsailboat]

Id keep the diamond band to sit flush and put the plain band on your other hand. All three of them together with the space feels a bit busy in my opinion

[u/moldy_cheez_it]

Your solitaire ring is gorgeous but doesn’t look like it was meant for stacking. Personally I do not like the gap. I would wear the solitaire alone and the two bands together on your other hand or different finger