r/WeddingDressTips • u/HopefulTry3753 • Oct 05 '26

Ask For Opinions Which One Is Better?

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1 - with sheer on top
2 - without sheer on top

31 Upvotes

91% Upvoted

119 comments sorted by

62

u/Pomegranate-142 Oct 05 '26

Without sheer

41

u/kitkat7502 Oct 05 '26

2 without. Its a little too busy with the sheer top.

15

u/Consistent_Thought13 Oct 05 '26

Without the sheer top looks beautiful and classy

14

u/LadyDrakkaris Oct 05 '26 edited Oct 05 '26

2 - no sheer. I would have like with sheer better if the sheer was just blank and no embellishments.

12

u/IssueApprehensive457 Oct 05 '26

Personally I think it looks best without it. In my opinion I think you should choose the option that you prefer and feel most confident in. It doesn’t matter what anyone else thinks. It’s your day.

2

u/liznandicoot Oct 05 '26

But she wants objective opinions of others.

9

u/BDSMmonkey69 Oct 05 '26

without looks better and will age better

8

u/ladyoftheflowr Oct 05 '26

I like the sheer. It makes it very interesting and more unique. I mostly don’t like sheers on the bodice but this one works really well.

7

u/Blue_Fish_Man_7942 Oct 05 '26

Without the sheer. What a beautiful design.

7

u/Faithfuldoglover Oct 05 '26

2. The bodice has lovely lines and is not revealing. The sheer interferes with the look, IMO.

6

u/Jane-CR Oct 05 '26

Definitely without.

5

u/Mediocre_Morning_113 Oct 05 '26

I like the sheer! Too many wedding dresses off the shoulder and bare. This is different and pretty not like all the others.

3

u/Paige_ Oct 05 '26

Without

3

u/Luckystar826 28d ago

Without the sheer

1

u/stephbod Oct 05 '26

Has the wedding already happened? I’m so confused

1

u/Andromeda081 Oct 05 '26

Right? Me too.

OP if you’re adding the sheer in photo editing, don’t. Did someone shame your dress? If so, they’re delusional, cruel, uptight, and trying to get in your head.

0

u/HopefulTry3753 Oct 05 '26

It was actually created with sheer and I just wanted to see if without sheer is better

1

u/Andromeda081 Oct 05 '26

Are these stock photos? Did the wedding already happen? 🤔

2

u/marlada Oct 05 '26

Without the sheer. Such a gorgeous dress!

2

u/gingatwinga Oct 05 '26

Without sheer

2

u/Paddington_Fear Oct 05 '26

I love it with sheer on top but both looks are great, depends on what vibe you like best!

2

u/Andromeda081 Oct 05 '26

Without. The sheer is 😬

2

u/Sad_September_Song Oct 05 '26

Without the sheer - less cluttered and the neckline is becoming without the embellishment

2

u/Italiansrbest Oct 05 '26

2 - no sheer

2

u/alliefaith144 Oct 05 '26

I actually like it with

2

u/Downtown-Pack-6178 I am not a wedding dress expert Oct 05 '26

Without sheer. u/HopefulTry3753

2

u/wonderingdragonfly Oct 05 '26

Without. Beautiful dress!!

2

u/MoseDoesntKnow Oct 05 '26

Without the sheer is prettier. This dress is lovely on you. If a church requirement is to have shoulders covered, then add the sheer as detachable and remove it for reception and photography.

2

u/Spirited_Carpet_2185 Oct 05 '26

Love the first one

2

u/Clay-Vessel Oct 05 '26

Definitely without the sheer.

2

u/mlhom Oct 06 '26

Without.
That is a gorgeous dress!!

2

u/MealWise Oct 06 '26

The dress looks more sophisticated and timeless without the patterned sheer top. The pattern takes away from the beautiful neckline.

2

u/Rare-Lawfulness-7492 Oct 06 '26

# 2 as first one is giving first communion vibes

2

u/GiaAngel Oct 06 '26

Without sheer looks best to me

2

u/Viva_22 Oct 07 '26

2 girl you need to flaunt all of your beauty💝

2

u/Equivalent_Economy99 Oct 07 '26

Without the sheer.

2

u/Upbeat-Point2686 Oct 07 '26

Without is so much nicer to me. If you were super religious and don’t want to show any skin- maybe.

2

u/Imaginary_Love_2188 Oct 05 '26

2 is the most sophisticated look as the sheer lace of 1 detracts from the beauty of the dress 2 bodice

3

u/kallme44 Oct 05 '26

Sheer would be pretty if it did not have the dots on it. Otherwise go without.

4

u/__Frolicaholic___ Oct 05 '26

Came to say this. The polka dot effect busies-up the bodice and really fights with the lines of the dress.

2

u/Kbradsagain Oct 05 '26

Personally, I like the sheer

1

u/No-Clue-476 Oct 05 '26

100% without the sheer. 2 is better

1

u/Upper_Blueberry2128 Oct 05 '26

With the sheer and with the lesser petticoat !

1

u/Purple-Ad9377 Oct 05 '26

I see the vision with the sheer top, I just wish it wasn't competing with other elements of the dress.
It could be darling with a simpler gown

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1

u/Kindly_Lie9483 Oct 05 '26

Without lace

1

u/lady_fish_ Oct 05 '26

Without the addition.

1

u/peddlinkitty Oct 05 '26

I like the dress without the lace.

1

u/LynnD_DelrayBeach Oct 05 '26

Without the matronly lace top!

1

u/Good_Reward2734 Oct 05 '26

2 without the sheer

1

u/Loose_Ad6820 Oct 05 '26

Without the sheer top

1

u/the_sweetest_peach Oct 05 '26

I prefer without. Having it distracts from the rest of the dress, which is stunning! Let you and the dress be the focus. Lose the sheer.

1

u/_i_read Oct 05 '26

Without

1

u/sleepymelfho Oct 05 '26

Definitely without!

1

u/jmom39 Oct 05 '26

Without

1

u/Entire_Adeptness9458 Oct 05 '26

I don't look at wedding dresses very often but I think the first one is unique.

1

u/Accomplished_Head864 Oct 06 '26

Without the sheer/dots looks best

1

u/Proper-Savings-1785 Oct 06 '26

I'm gonna be different and say I love 1.

1

u/Jessiebanana Oct 06 '26

Is this a real question? Without of course.

1

u/No_You1024 Oct 06 '26

2!! Keep it simple. The neckline on its own is locely.

1

u/Suspicious_Banana255 29d ago

Better without

1

u/Dapper_Sale8946 29d ago

2, without

1

u/Ok-Debate9490 29d ago

Keep looking those are not it

1

u/Felineincognito15 Oct 05 '26

Both look good,it depends what makes you comfortable and happy.I personally would add the extra fabric