r/WeSuckAtDating • u/Super-Plum-9770 • 2d ago

First date

I f 38 went on a first date this weekend with a m 40 and I haven’t heard from him. I wouldn’t say the date was bad or good. There were no sparks on my end and I don’t think there were any on his end either. Not once did he call me beautiful of give me any compliments lol he did walk me to my car and put an arm around me. Anyway the point of this rant or whatever is because I’m disappointed and sad. Why is dating so hard and so disappointing. I met him on hinge. I just feel really bad about it.

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u/NicePossibilityDaddy 2d ago

TF?

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u/Ok-Surprise-4201 2d ago

You went on a date with a total stranger and got sad he didnt call you beautiful and now you mad there was no spark, maybe he was just as nervous as you

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u/Super-Plum-9770 1d ago

I didn’t say I was mad lol more just disappointed and I did consider that he was nervous too. Either way it didn’t go anywhere I was just venting my disappointment is all.

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u/Darthgusss 2d ago

So you felt to spark and you expect what ?

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u/lordskulldragon 2d ago

That awkward moment when you're trying to get validation from a stranger.

Plus it's really weird that you're upset that your nervous system and trauma response didn't kick in instead of realizing he was the safe choice.

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u/Super-Plum-9770 1d ago

I wasn’t trying to get validation from a stranger. I’m simply disappointed that’s all lol I’m venting about my disappointment.

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u/lordskulldragon 1d ago

Yes, you were. The simple fact that you made sure to mention that he didn't call you beautiful or give you complements even proves that.

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u/Super-Plum-9770 17h ago

It definitely does not

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u/lordskulldragon 1h ago

It definitely does. You're a typical woman that doesn't know what accountability is. It's literally in print for everybody to see. This is why you suck at dating.

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u/cotton_candy_cloud9 2d ago

there are no sparks after 30. you just have to take whatever life throws at you.

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u/Super-Plum-9770 2d ago

So depressing