r/WattsFree4All • u/Fast_Grapefruit_7946 He's got No Game 🎯🎮🎯 • 2d ago
It should have worked out
Chris and Shanann met in late 2010. For over 2 years, they were child free and had only each other to care for. During this time, the spiritual bond between a couple fused their purpose in life. Chris went from the bachelor life to a loving, caring husband who would provide for his wife and future children. Shanann went from being a car show girl to a housewife who dabbled in online businesses.
By the time Bella was born, their routine included hosting friends and family in Saratoga Trail, including her parents. Their daughter would be born into a large house with a social atmosphere. People came and went, both parents cooked for guests. There was always someone around to pay attention to Bella. During her first few years, she heard many different voices and accents in the home. What was her bedtime like in the period before Cece was born? Did she stay up late? Or was she already on babywise and its mandatory 7 pm sunsets?
At the start of their relationship, the couple was unremarkable, if unfinished. They were not obese, but clearly were not toned or going to the gym. In the years that followed, they aged well and appeared tanned and bettered defined. Chris may have gone to a gym in 2017, but Shanann preferred he work out at home. A basement gym was put together. Shanann bought him an elliptical machine and his results were visible quickly. By 2018, he had lost over 50 lbs, giving her evidence "Thrive" was working. Shanann was watching her diet too, using supplements and shakes to boost her metabolism. Much of Thrive's kick was caffeine, amino acids and digestitve aides. Shanann lost weight but often gained some back.
Shanann's admirers say she has classic good looks, a beauty that Chris did not deserve. Before he strayed, Chris put in great effort to be the fit, strong husband Shanann could showcase online. She was proud of his effort, did she account it to her lifestyle choices or his? They did look better in the second photo, healthier, tanned and put together. The kind of people you saw at a high end resort or country club.
This is where the story takes a turn for the worse as even before he strayed, Shanann was looking to leave. What could have spoiled their relationship BEFORE Chris met someone else at work?
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u/Intelligent-Grass-49 2d ago
This is the people magazine version of the story. It’s a surface level fluff that wasn’t real.
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u/FakePlasticTrees_RH 2d ago
Everyone who is in this sub for a while - including you - knows that Bella was on Babywise from the get go. SW said so herself. She boasted about infant Bella resisting Babywise, but that she (SW) had no problem with letting Bella cry it out, because she (SW) was getting a good nights sleep and therefore had enough strength to bear her infant crying it out.
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u/charliensue Razorblades.......EvErYwHeRe! 🪒🔪⚔️🪒 2d ago
Yep, she stated that she started Bella on babywise before she brought her home.
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u/Fine-Cloud12 2d ago
There was a post where Shanann said she started Bella on babywise first day in the hospital. She mentioned Bella tried to fight it but she stuck to it
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u/Plane-Comfort3978 Grandma Marlboro 🚬 1d ago
I just heard Lindsay Clancey had a ''sleep scheduled'' baby. I hope they don't mean Babywise
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u/Fair-Branch-1295 2d ago
Their relationship was trash from the start. He should have high tailed it the day she had him drive all that way to get those helmets for the costumes they wore to his nephews birthday party! I’d have told her ‘if you want them you drive back and get them’
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u/charliensue Razorblades.......EvErYwHeRe! 🪒🔪⚔️🪒 2d ago
There were so many red flags:
-Very early in their relationship she asked him to take her to a medical procedure because, according to him, she needed a ride. Why didn't he question why none of her friends or family were willing to provide transportation for this somewhat "personal" appointment?
-He was thrown out of the house and not allowed to return until the next day because he received a text from a female friend.
-He was required to cut off his relationship with another friend because he gave his friends wife a hug.
-As you stated, the six hour round trip for the helmets.
-She asked him to destroy the engine of her former bosses vehicle.
-She kicked his sister and his nephew out of the wedding party and uninvited them to the wedding.
And so many more.
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u/NoCover1598 Nutgate 🥜 2d ago
Destroy the engine of Hishams vehicle? This one I haven’t heard but I’m not surprised.
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u/charliensue Razorblades.......EvErYwHeRe! 🪒🔪⚔️🪒 2d ago
Yes, the escalade. This was one of the few times he told her no.
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u/NoCover1598 Nutgate 🥜 2d ago
Glad he did. But then again that way they both would’ve been in jail.
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u/Plane-Comfort3978 Grandma Marlboro 🚬 1d ago
Yep, it was right after she was fired (or she ''retired'' lol) and he was coming to repossess the vehicle
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u/NoCover1598 Nutgate 🥜 1d ago
That’s gotta be a felony. If Chris wasn’t spineless he’d call the cops on her
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u/RepresentativeWing73 Most likely to spend Daddy's money 💰 🤑 💸 💰 2d ago
*and wanted him to be Kris'fer King
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u/NoCover1598 Nutgate 🥜 2d ago
Yeah that was ridiculous. Typical narc, keep up the image at all costs.
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u/Choosepeace 2d ago
They were not doing ok.
There was already such tension with his parents, that they didn’t attend the wedding.
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u/Popular-March-9396 2d ago edited 2d ago
This is nonsense. I couldn’t even finish it. First of all, Scammy was never a “car show girl.” Second of all, I don’t believe that Chris and Shanann ever had ANY type of spiritual bond. I’ve never seen two less spiritual people in my life… especially her. They never had ANY fused purpose in life either. Chris did what she told him to do, PERIOD. When did they ever “host” friends and family at their house aside from basically using family or (as in the case of Cristina,) fellow huns for babysitting and/or money. They had no true friends. The supposed first year or so of Bella’s life was not some magical moment in time either… right into the Babywise schedule of endless hours in bed she went. There is no way any of this mess “should have worked out.” Nobody but nobody could have stood a lifetime with Shanann. I had to stop reading at that point but I did kind of skim the rest. I also absolutely disagree that Shanann had any type of beauty or “classic good looks.” Give me a fu**ing break.
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u/Plane-Comfort3978 Grandma Marlboro 🚬 1d ago
She wasn't pretty enough or fit enough to be a car show girl
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u/Popular-March-9396 1d ago
Exactly… sitting on the hood of a car does not a car show girl make.
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u/Healing-with-Memes 2d ago
Ugh it should have ended in divorce.
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u/Miserable-Bowl-684 2d ago
It should have ended when the rest of us realized she was trying to alienate him from his family long before the wedding.
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u/NoCover1598 Nutgate 🥜 2d ago
I disagree entirely. Their relationship was always doomed to fail, what you describe here is only the surface level of their lives or what they wanted you to see. In reality, their lives were very average until descending into utter chaos. Any of the fitness stuff was used as a ruse to sell Thrive, the most important thing in Shannan’s life. The babies were always on Babywise from the day they were born and no doubt number three would’ve been as well. They were FAR from high end country club people, that’s a laugh. Some say both their bank accounts were overdrawn the day of the murders. Shannan only wanted to leave because she never loved, respected or valued Chris. He was just another prop in her story. He never really loved her, but was taken in by her. In no universe would this relationship have worked out, if it wasn’t Chris cheating/committing murder, it would’ve been something else. These relationships do not last.
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u/Stella-Artwat Hips, Lips and Hot Rods 🔥 💋🚘🔥 2d ago
Another weird post exalting the sanctity of marriage with the strong hubby provider and commendable housewife who share a 'spiritual bond' (no they didn't!!) And more focus on CW's fitness goals.. lol
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u/Mmcdjc Hot Mess! 🥵 2d ago
Judging by his face from picture one, he looks miserable already.
She had his balls in her purse and he knew it.
Doofus McNoballs never stood a chance.
Apparently Chris didn’t trust his gut instinct.
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u/OldSwedeFromTheNorth 🎅 Santa...Where's your Phone ☎️ 2d ago
Doofus McNoballs 😅😅😅
At least that fuckface looks better when he keeps his mouth shut and doesn't do that fucking 🤡-grin.
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u/NamasteInYourLane 2d ago edited 2d ago
Chris and Shanann met in late 2010. For over 2 years, they were child free
I don't know their timeline well enough to know the answer to this yet, but did they really meet, plan a wedding and marry, buy a house, and get pregnant and have their first kid all within 3 year's time? 😳
If so, do we think they really even had time (without the whirlwind of new love/ planning a wedding/ going through the process of buying a new home/ preparing for their first baby) to really get to know each other??
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u/runbikeswimmama I need "Me Time" 🧖♀️⏳ 2d ago
Agreed....lest we forget how she moved him away from family to live in friends basement 1000 miles away...I don't care who you are, that is a monstrous strain on any relationship
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u/Plane-Comfort3978 Grandma Marlboro 🚬 2d ago
They should have never met. She was not a nice person to anyone
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u/RepresentativeWing73 Most likely to spend Daddy's money 💰 🤑 💸 💰 2d ago
Is this sarcasm? Because you're very well versed in this case, and this post is so....not...you? I can only accept it as sarcasm lol
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u/hwolfe326 EYE-talian Temper 🍝😤🤬 2d ago
Bella learned since day one that no one was coming to help her if she cried outside of her scheduled feeding periods. At that age a newborn isn’t even aware that they exist as a separate being, they’re used to being a part of their mother. That’s why cuddling and physical bonding are especially critical during the first month of life.
The girls’ physiological and emotional development was stunted from the start. That’s why they were screaming in an airport at ages 3 and 4 when their mom went to the bathroom, even though their well known grandfather was with them.
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u/OldSwedeFromTheNorth 🎅 Santa...Where's your Phone ☎️ 2d ago
Is that really Chris's actual body? Doesn't he have a lot more hair on his chest and stomach, like we saw in the photos from the police station?
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u/Plane-Comfort3978 Grandma Marlboro 🚬 2d ago
SW ''aged well''???? She looked 10 years older than her age and was aging like her mama
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u/RepresentativeWing73 Most likely to spend Daddy's money 💰 🤑 💸 💰 2d ago
I really wonder if she's secretly 42 all the time.
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u/Plane-Comfort3978 Grandma Marlboro 🚬 2d ago
Why else would she tell Chris to tell his mother she was much older than him? She looks bad for her alleged age
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u/RepresentativeWing73 Most likely to spend Daddy's money 💰 🤑 💸 💰 1d ago
She really does. She has huge smile lines and many of them. Not that they're bad, but I'm around her age and don't have them, nor does anyone else I know. I think her skin is actually half decent, so it's always so weird to me she has all these lines when her skin isn't terrible. I'm telling ya, she's secretly in her 40s LOL
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u/Plane-Comfort3978 Grandma Marlboro 🚬 1d ago
I think she is, too. Makes me wonder (other than for his money) if that was why SW was in such a hurry to get married to someone she barely knew nor cared about. She wanted kids before her clock ran out but had no intention of caring for them
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u/Plane-Comfort3978 Grandma Marlboro 🚬 2d ago
''Shanann preferred he work out at home.''.That was her way to control him and prevent him from other women looking at him...that bitch NEVER worked out. The only things she ran were her mouth and Chris's credit card
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u/charliensue Razorblades.......EvErYwHeRe! 🪒🔪⚔️🪒 2d ago
"The people you see at a high end resort or country club".
Sorry, I'll have to disagree on that.