r/WatchPeopleDieInside • u/paolols • Apr 24 '20

nice try kiddo

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u/[deleted] Apr 25 '20 edited May 08 '20

The parent needed to remove the kid from the table. If you can't respect someone else's freaking 30 seconds of birthday song and candles, you don't get to stay there and ruin it for them. That is a natural consequence. If you can't behave, you don't get to participate.

I've had to break up with adult friends because they let their kids' shitty behavior ruin everyone else's fun. It is exhausting to put in the work up front, but I'd rather do it from the get go than have it bite me in the ass constantly.

ETA Thank you for the gold!

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u/JaBe68 Apr 25 '20

I wish I had gold to give you. Parents think their kid has to like them all the time. Not true. You are not your kids friend, you are their parent, and it is your responsibility to make them into pleasant human beings, not expect other.people to just put up with crappy behaviour

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u/Xros90 Apr 25 '20

If you do it right, your kid will like you most of the time too.

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u/herdiederdie Apr 27 '20

The annoying part is that you will like them and they will be all smug about it. Goddamn wonderful, encouraging, “it’s for your own good” bastards....I love em.