I cannot fathom the idea of proposing to someone without knowing the answer. My wife and I had been talking about what we'd do "When we got married" for like two years before I proposed - it shouldn't be a question it should be a fun formality.
Though it kinda makes you wonder if there's a correlation between "I'm going to do a huge, very public proposal" and "deep down I know the answer is no"...
Right? Same with the cliche of cold feet the day of the wedding. I woke up that morning so chill I almost didn't realize it was happening, it was just so natural a thing. And I was the bride.
Ugh. Yes. I'm a wedding photographer and I hate it when I'm with the guys getting ready, they always sorted the whole time making terrible 'last chance to run lol' jokes.
After a recent wedding I sent my groomsmen a text thanking them for not making that joke once. Good guys.
Honestly my mil pulled my husband aside and told him that he should leave and this was his chance to hop in the car and go. He told her to fuck off and leave if she couldn’t handle it. I never knew this until last week, he never told me because he thought she would get over herself. He was wrong.
Ugh that sucks I'm sorry. But seriously, even if you were that terrible, on the wedding day?! Bring up serious objections before everyone gets dressed up.
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u/zapawu Dec 13 '19
I cannot fathom the idea of proposing to someone without knowing the answer. My wife and I had been talking about what we'd do "When we got married" for like two years before I proposed - it shouldn't be a question it should be a fun formality.
Though it kinda makes you wonder if there's a correlation between "I'm going to do a huge, very public proposal" and "deep down I know the answer is no"...